This guy that i liked turned me down. I lost 30 pounds. Now he saw me and likes me. He keeps texting me asking me to have sex with him and he wants me to send him a pics of my.... i like him a lot but is he only in it for sex? or does he really like me? im 18 and im waiting till i find love to have sex. Im a virgin skiny, and really pretty. What do i do? what do i tell him? cuz i still wanna b his friend? i want him to like me still? any ideas???
2007-01-20 08:34:48 · 27 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
run as fast as you can!
You have made a mistake!
He just wants to **** you!
2007-01-20 08:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by edoubleyou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God! are you crazy? Think about it. He did not bother with you when you were overweight. Now that you are skinny he likes you. What does that tell you about the kind of guy he is? Not only that, but he actually asks you to have sex with him and send him pictures of your??? What does that tell you again about the kind of guy he is? You are a virgin. Keep it that way and under no circumstances give yourself away to a jerk like that. You would not be happy afterwards and would have wasted yourself for nothing. Wait for the right guy who loves you no matter how big you may be, not because you are skinny. Tell him to take a hike right now!
2007-01-20 08:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by Rita D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look if he really liked you he would have liked you fat. He obviously is just wanting sex if he wants pics of your privates. He soulnds like a losser and I wouldn't want him even for a friend. Sounds to me like ( and I don't mean ANY disrespect) but that because of your weight you seriously lowered your standards and your self esteem. It is hard work to lose that amount of weight. I know I did it for a guy and it still wasn't good enough.
I think you should take you time and find someone who wants you for who YOU are and not what your body looks like.
He sounds like a looser!!!
2007-01-20 08:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart my best friend just went through this the guy talked to her about sex a lot but they talked for like 6 months!!! Soon as he got it he moved on.
2007-01-20 08:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well honestly if this guy is just in it because now he thinks your beautiful and wants to have sex with you then hes a downright pig. nothin changed before except your body...your personality is still the same and thats whats most important...if he couldnt see that before then thats not what hes looking for. i know you may like him but if he's in it for the wrong reasons and your not ready then you need to stick to your morals and principles and let him know that you will not be that girl and you would be happy to get to know him but you are not in it for sex. he needs to know how you feel.
2007-01-20 08:40:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it if you didnt lose those 30 lbs do you think that he will still have asked you to sleep with him no. this guy is completly a unreasonable person but then agian a lot of people only like people for looks just think to your self its a crush you can get over it and later in life find someone that will like you for who you are. but if you really like this guy say that if he really likes you he can wait
2007-01-20 08:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by crawlingman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no use in talking to this guy. he only wants you for sex and that's all. suppose you were to gain that weight back, he will almost fly out of your life. He's a jerk and a user! Don't get your heart broken over someone unworthy.
2007-01-20 08:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on, the guys sounds like a sleaze. If he's asking you for sex and telling you to send him naked pictures of yourself then yeah...sounds like he only wants sex.
2007-01-20 08:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by kj 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get to know him, but do not have sex with him!!! He did not accept u 4 who u were before, which means that he just luvz u now cuz he likes sex or he likes that u got slimmer... dont fall 4 guys tricks!!!
Good Luck!!!!
-Chrissy
2007-01-20 08:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by Akon_luva_13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
KEEP WAITING!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't listen to this jackass. He wants sex and that's all. If you had meant anything to him, he would have made his move on you before you lost the weight. Ignore the creep and tell him to shove it up his own a**.
You deserve better than that, don't have anything to do with him.
2007-01-20 08:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
amm yeah its pretty obvious if you wanna be called slut forever then give in if not then dont. Tell him no you dont wanna have sex or you are not ready or something. Cuz he is only in for sex.
take care
2007-01-20 08:38:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋