ok, so i went out with this really cute boy. And he now is in love with my best friend. I think that she likes him and i thnk that they are about to go out. Even though she knows that i like him, she tells me how can i like someone that i know doesnt like me and also she says i didnt love him so it doesnt really matter. So yah i really dont know what to do. O also he is like obssesed with her. i was with her for like an hour and he called her phone and my other friends phone judt to talk to her about 20 or more times!! wow
2007-01-20 08:27:44 · 9 answers · asked by speedy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in a similar situation as yours a few years ago. It was unbelievable how easily my ex and my own girlfriend could flirt with each other right in front of me. My Solution? I dumped my backstabbing girlfriend and stopped communicating with that ex of mine. No one should have negative people like that in their life.
At the same time, every person's situation is different. You need to ask yourself: (1) Is my insensitive "ex" worth running after? and (2) Is my girlfriend a true friend to me or not? Also, if it feels necessary for you, talk to both of them separately (and together as well) and let each person know exactly how you feel about them seeing/dating each other. See how they respond verbally and nonverbally. Hopefully by obtaining all the info. possible, you will be able to figure out who is/isn't worth your time.
And believe me girl, as far as that ex of yours goes...there's too many other fish in the sea out there. No girl/woman should focus on any guy who lacks compassion or any of that good stuff that us ladies deserve to be given. I know it takes a while to move on and live your life as you want, but you will eventually move on...for the better...I know I have. Much power to you girl!
2007-01-20 09:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Zara R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The part of the picture that is missing is what happened between the , So I went out with this really cute boy and the And he now is in love with my best friend. My best guess is that the answer is somewhere in the events that are in between these two statements you made. As far as what you should do maybe is just rethorical and the what you should do is really what you should have done and learn from it!
2007-01-20 08:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for sure she isn't your chum if she keeps attempting to sleep with your ex-boyfriend. i've got self assurance like an ex-boyfriend is off limits to acquaintances no matter how long you have been broken up. My suggestion is to talk to her, tell her that her flirting is making you disenchanted. If that would not help, you're able to easily could desire to depart her on my own. Her attempting to get with your ex-boyfriend is indicators that she will't be depended on.
2016-11-25 22:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is that you have a bad Best friend.... i personally know that i could never do that to my own best friend... because she is choosing to put some cute boy that she could lose in a moment... over a best friend she could have for a life time. friends last longer than guys ususally.. and it's always good to have a best friend to go to when a guy becomes stupid and dumps you. that is not good that she is not being considerate of your feelings and says stuff like that..... i think you need to re-evaluate your friendship... and you should take about this with her.. since it is such an issue for you that could break up your friendship over it. ask her if that is worth it? and if she doesn't take you seriously and says you are overreacting, well i don't think you are, and i think you should find a best friend who is a BEST friend..
2007-01-20 08:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think cat.tuck is right, they keyword is EX ;)) ...
I personally compliment you for givin the perfect answer at the first go :D
Cheers :)
Live life to the most, because you never know what awaits you tomorrow, We're living to die another day !
2007-01-20 08:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by alberque2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your EX and they like each other. Why dont you try to be happy for both of them? If you like both of them, then their hapiness should be important to you....right? Find someone else to be happy with...
2007-01-20 08:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Soldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont introduce them or else she wont be your friend anymore. get your man back. possiveness is not an obsession its another way of love. ifu love him dont let go. simple.
2007-01-20 08:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by trippmaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
key word was EX, sweetie
2007-01-20 08:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. you can't hate your friend either. Trust me, you'll find other people.
2007-01-20 08:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by pianodude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋