my girl saw a SPIM message on my IM and thinks its a real Woman on it and that i'm messing around. no matter what proof i try to show her she won't listen and doesn't want to have anything to do with me. What Do I do?
2007-01-20 08:21:21 · 7 answers · asked by godraven028 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the same problem, it means that they are insecure and extremely jealous.. As far as I can tell, there is no cure.... Good Luck
2007-01-20 08:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be something more behind it. I mean I can be a jealous person in a relationship but even though I am I've still been with my bf for two years and we haven't had any problems other than arguments about trust. I trust him completely now because he's never done anything to hurt me. Maybe it's a trust issue and in my opinion, that's the first thing that you're going to want to fix. Tell your girlfriend that she make you happy and if she trusted you, she would know that you wouldn't hurt her.
2007-01-20 16:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is insecure in the relationship, the only thing that you will be able to do, is continue to reassure her that you are not messing around, and that you are loyal to her exclusively. Sometimes women just need the reassurance, Don't pester her, but when you see her, let er' know, and try to sound sincere.And whatever you do, don't let her achieve contact with your new female computer companion, if that happens, it's game over, and you'll not have the option to insert another coin to continue.
2007-01-20 16:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot prove a negative--not in logic and certainly not in romance. Tell her to not let the door hit her in the butt on her way out.
2007-01-20 16:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't trust you over this? Why on earth would you stay with someone who has so little respect for you??
2007-01-20 16:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by yocum1219 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she don't trust you, then shes not worth being with, if shes insecure now, then she always will be and you will always have problems.
2007-01-20 16:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by wickerpark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, if the trust in not there (and you know you have NOT done ANYTHING).. then you do not have a relationship.Turst is two way- always.....
2007-01-20 16:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by A T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋