Ok so. I met a this guy and he gives me butterfly’s in my tummy and we talk all the time. There is just something about him I cant explain I think about him all the time. but the problem is that I have a boyfriend and we have been going out for 2 since the 3rd and I don’t want to hurt him but I don’t know what to do. I love my boyfriend in all but this guy is something different. What do you think I should do
2007-01-20 08:17:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you're having feelings for another, I doubt you love your boyfriend. Think hard about it, "Is it love?" or is it a crush? And is it all worth it, loosing your current boyfriend.
2007-01-20 08:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If I am reading this correctly and you are in the 5th grade then I think that you should ask yourself the question: Why am I dating guys at all? Am I dating to get married some day and if so, then you have a long time until you can get married, so just wait on all that. Relationships have their place in life but you don't want to miss out on being a kid and all the great perks there are to being able to just be a kid and enjoy life and friends. Plus, boys are pretty immature and stupid at that age.
2007-01-20 08:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by benny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go up to your boyfriend and confront the situation... he might have the same feelings for a different girl. if not, you need to break it off with him, because knowing that you like someone else, and that someone else is doing his job will litterally kill him. just get it over with, and if things dont work out with the new guy, then just go for someone else!! it is time for a change up if you have been going out since 3rd grade!!! just get the heart break overwith!!
2007-01-20 08:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by blonde brunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although you may love your boyfriend and not want to hurt him you owe it to yourself and your b/f to end your relationship. you obviously have a connection with this new guy and its something special that could be great for the both of you. you owe it to yourself and your boyfriend to tell him the truth and be happy with the one you truly want to be with. he wont be hurt if he knows the truth...it will hurt more if you lie to yourself and him...just think about that.
2007-01-20 08:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a choice of which one u want more, if you been with ur boyfreind for along time, ur better off stayin with him unless u wanna go for something new.
2007-01-20 08:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by wickerpark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this...do you actually LOVE your bf or do you just care? Its probably more lust than love. If you want to be happy I saw follow your intuition.
2007-01-20 08:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you sould go with the new guy. but yet i think you should stick with the old. just do what your heart tells you.
2007-01-20 08:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by chantell M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your boyfriend.
2007-01-20 08:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE IT GO STAY WITH THE ONE YOUR WITH
2007-01-20 08:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋