I feel myself bad because I have no boyfriend. Do I have to have a boyfriend to prove people that I can be liked/loved?
I feel ashamed to go round with my mother or alone when people are around with their girl/boyfriends.
2007-01-20 08:14:04 · 14 answers · asked by michelle 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You do not have to have a boyfriend to prove you are loveable.
You are unique. No-one else like you...ever.
That makes you special.
Boyfriends will come in their own time.
Do NOT be ashamed of what and who you are.
2007-01-20 08:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by alan h 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you feel like that because you are lonely. I do not have a boyfriend. It does not matter if you have a boyfriend or not, as long as you are a good person. Be friends with yourself, be friends with your family, go out and do things that you enjoy, don't stay at home feeling sorry for yourself. If you want to be around people, you can always volunteer at an organization or something. It is not always a good thing to have a boyfriend right away-it seems like you want to be careful in chosing the boyfriend you select, and that is much better than just picking the first guy who happens to be cute. Don't worry, I think you will get a boyfriend eventually.
2007-01-20 08:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by poeticjustice 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I used 2 b in exact same situation, I went round with my mum & used 2 feel sad 4 myslef seeing everyone with their BF's & friends shopping together...but it really doesn't matter. It's who you are which is important, if u r a good person, be grateful for everything you have. A BF is not going to make u a better perosn, he might bring more fun or love into ur life but he won't change you, he can't make u have honour,respect,dignity etc. I eventually met someone & I leanred this the hard way. have confidence & repsect for your own self, then not only will you be happy, but people will be drawn to you too.
also rememebr some of us are different.
2007-01-20 09:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all..
never feel ashamed of who you are... and certainly do not go out with the next guy you see just to have a boyfriend... in the long run you'll be much stronger because of it... if you live your life constantly making sure there is a guy on your arm you'll never know true independance.... be happy with yourself first... then start looking for relationships.
2007-01-20 10:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be able to love yourself before you can actually love another person fully, I truly believe that to be 100% true. When people argue they say things that they REALLY don't mean. If it continues, you should address it with him and tell him what you don't like. In my own relationship, I tell my boyfriend what I don't like and avoid the drama of not telling him. Maybe this is not what you want to hear but maybe taking a break from your relationship and work on yourself. Learn to love yourself and learn to not let those silly comments affect you so dramactically.
2016-05-24 01:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to say i feel the same way. i am not saying that it is normal but i feel like i am not loved i have no family to love me. so i need a boyfriend to feel like someone wants to be with me is that how you feel? all i can say is that dont let it get you down and dont degrade yourself for love. dont change and do what you feel is right.
2007-01-20 08:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by ashley h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been alone for ages since i split up with my last Gf.
it bothered me for a while but not any more, i would feel more odd to be with someone now than not.
is that strange.
2007-01-20 09:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by andylefty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay to be without a boyfriend sometimes it is better to be by yourself you can go without the DRAMA that some people go through with trust me I know I used to be one of them.
2007-01-20 08:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by D'Asia 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U GOT TO GO OUT THERE and I think MR Right will come too U
2007-01-20 11:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by shellyshellygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw them all;you shouldnt feel ashamed.if you dont need a boyfriend dont care about others opinion.however if you feel you need one try to be more open to love...
2007-01-20 09:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by greentea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋