why is it that women do not like to have a body? what is wrong with having curves. i find it disgusting for a girl to be super skinny. help me out.
2007-01-20 08:10:33 · 16 answers · asked by young grown man 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with what you have to say !
Thank you for making us women feel good about our curves!
If you could do that now with the men ! So they all think like this !
2007-01-20 08:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hiya
Its because the media typifies the 'perfect body' as being tall and thin. It is literally like saying 'you r not beautiful and can never aspire to real physical beauty' unless u r. I think a lot of men buy into this as well, hence y women r under such pressure to be thin. Although men mite say 'curves look better', it doesnt mean this tranlates to the modelling industry/celebrity world where lets face it - where the 'Beautiful People' reside. Its also a parameter of self worth - if u r tall and thin, u r more likely to have a higher sense of self worth and self confidence then say a short more rotund woman - hence the reason women diet to be/stay slim. Take me for example - im a beautiful woman to look at - my only problem tho? im teeny tiny!! my weight is no prob and i have curves in all the right places (i'm 4 feet 11 inchs). If ppl (men in particular) didnt buy into the 'ideal body type' of tall and thin being perfect, theres no way i would been bullied like i was at skool nor rejected for dating as tho being short with a crime. If only i was taller i wouldnt have been insulted near as much and so would have had higher self worth (which im working on!). For other women weight tends to be the prob - its all about retaining a sense of security when presented with an image of beauty that is seen as standard.
Ps sorry for that essay haha
2007-01-20 08:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is unhealthy to be like that. I also feel that they should do everything they can not be unhealthy. At least not smoke, drink, or eat extremely. I think curves on a woman are more attractive. I also think that skinny is a little attractive. I know someone who has hardly no figure. A small body frame, and no people I do not have to sleep with her to think that or believe that for those who think so. Anyways, I think that they are less attractive, NOT unattractive, just less. I find them both attractive, just not equally.
2007-01-20 08:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fashion industry is full of sickos who think SKIN AND BONES is sexy. To see a model who looks like a Dachau resident is disgusting. Too many women today think that is the way to look. That mind thought causes young girls and women to make themselves very ill by becoming anorexic. I'd like to see some REAL women modeling clothes..REAL CLOTHES that women can wear every day...for a change. Give me a woman with some meat/fat on her bones any day over some concentration camp survivor looking skag who thinks she's hot.
2007-01-20 08:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't and never will be super skinny. I am in the process of losing weight, but that's only to get to a healthy weight so I can be here in the future for my kids. But I will not weigh anything less than about 140-150 pounds.
2007-01-20 08:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by balooney2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am naturally underweight, and since it's natural, I really don't consider myself "disgusting." Nice adjective though. Don't assume that we all don't care about curves. I eat plenty of fatty foods, excercise to gain weight, and in other ways take care of myself. Girls have hated me for my body, and men have liked me for it. I have okay self esteem, but my body issues are not the same ones as other people. I can't help being skinny any more than overweight people can help that. It's all about society's ideals, and believe me, they are not consistant. Think before you wright next time.
2007-01-20 08:18:25 · answer #6 · answered by micha 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Great attitutude! Women want to be super skinny because that is all that we are fed in our everyday lives. The media, the peer pressure, the need to feel accepted, all of this causes this need to be super skinny. I, am far from it, and feel much happier this way.
2007-01-20 08:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's the fashion now, and it's a way that some women compete with each other (a rather sick way, if you ask me).
I agree with you though, curves are a whole lot prettier. I'm not talking obese, just curvy.
2007-01-20 08:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because everyone else says that rail thin is the new pink. if you see a thin girl in a bar, i bet you would have never noticed the big girl sitting right next to her.
2007-01-20 08:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they think guys like all skinny girls.
2007-01-20 08:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋