i'm 18, freshman in college, i don't hook up with guys or anything like that at all at parties. i just dance with them, do my thing and leave them to dance somewhere else. i don't give out my numbers or real name at parties cuz it's just a party (worst place to meet any one).i can admit that i use to love to party. i look forward to partying and just having a great time. after one good party i can't wait till the next one. however, now i don't have that feeling anymore. i want something more than just bumpin n grinding wit some guy at a party. i want someone to call my own and enjoy time with him. i can still go out and have fun at parties, but it isn't fullfilling. i come back home with an empty filling, like something is missing. it's really weird that i'm feeling like this because i always use to enjoy partying. i don't know what's going on...give me some answer.
2007-01-20 08:10:27 · 5 answers · asked by SMILES 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anybody you've met in any of your classes interest you? Are all guys that go to parties off the list? if so, you eliminate alot of people. In fact, a guy with the same 'rules' would eliminate you. Are you 'not girlfriend material' because you go to parties? I dont think you should be so narrow minded. Be open to anyone who catches your eye and has common interests WHEREVER you may meet them. Your not crazy. The need for love is a basic human need, and something you're not open to if you pass out fake numbers and names...
Good luck!
2007-01-20 08:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Soldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a time and place for everything, partying is for everyone but not necessarily everyone's thing - just like any other form of entertainment e.g. specific sports, the arts, travel etc. I got the feeling that as I got older I got bored of partying as well, and it was'nt easy talking to girls in all that noise anyway. I still enjoy partying but just a lot less than when I was younger. Like they say been there, done that. I guess we mature and that tastes are change.
Try something different i'm sure there is a lot more out there to keep you entertained...and i'm sure you'll find someone you'll like during the process!
2007-01-20 16:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by jackcal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I as well agree with the doe boy ....and you should be glad some ppl never grow up.
2007-01-22 14:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just growing up, maturing. Looking for more meaningful things to do, its not a bad thing, it just happens.
2007-01-20 16:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Mr. Doe...you r growing up!
2007-01-20 16:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Ŗεŋεε 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋