2007-01-20 08:06:18 · 7 answers · asked by Brian T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Three of the groomsmen in our wedding came from out of state, and we didn't pay for their lodging or transportation.
2 of them stayed at our house on the Thursday before the wedding and they split the cost of the rental car and hotel room for the other 2 nights.
We did pay for their breakfasts, lunches, and dinners (and drinks!) while they were here for our wedding.
I don't think you have to. It can get very expensive!
2007-01-20 08:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's customary to pay for their lodging and meals. Atleast that's what has been the custom in my family for nearly 50 years.
2007-01-20 16:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been an out of town wedding attendent, and the bride and groom have never paid for anything, except a small gift, which is customary. If they accepted the honor of being in your wedding, then they accept the costs that go along with it.
2007-01-20 16:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by leslie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must know some cheap people. I've been in weddings out of town, and never had the wedding couple pay for anything for me. I think it is not necessary, and if you do not have the means, I am sure your close friends and family will understand.
2007-01-20 16:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is customary for you to pay for their lodging,transportation,and food the whole they were there.
2007-01-20 16:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by binibining pilipina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1ST?
MOST PAY THRU WEDDING......
2007-01-20 16:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by cork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-20 16:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋