Is this a bad sign if ur talking to a girl over the phone and.?

Question

This seems to happen often though so I don't think its a bad thing but, lets say if your talking to a girl and all of a sudden she is paying more attention to her dog and not listening? Like saying things to her dog with cutie words or whatever or lets say she is all a sudden talking to a little girl, saying cutie little words to her as well is not paying attention to you all a sudden?, if she has a friend over and she talks to her for a little bit and stops paying attention to me? is this a bad sign?

eh, I guess she does like me because me and her are going to go out for starbucks on a first date, so at least she likes me enough for that so yea, what do you think?

oh yea, this is over the phone as well! not in person!

Answer 1

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year.
There have been several times he always seemed distracted on the phone... like yelling at his sisters for something... talking to his parents, etc.

It's only the beginning... I mean, it hasn't even started for you yet.
It'll be fine. Don't stress over the little things. Just look forward to your first date. Once you've been in the relationship for a while and she continues this, just let her know how you feel. Let her know that it seems you don't put enough attention into you. I did that to my boyfriend and he doesn't do that stuff anymore. But don't think about that kinda stuff now. You'll cross that bridge when you get there.

Trust me. It could be so much worse.
A guy and I used to talk. The first time he called me, all he talked about was every single girl he used to go out with.........
Yeah, wow.

Answer 2

Hey listen I know your really torn up, and that really sucks, especially when you have invested so much of your emotion into it. But you will be appreciative when you hear me say I don't think that this is real love, The person who you loved was not the real her.. She showed you a 'front' when you began dating' and then turned into the horrible person she is. I know pisces can't accept other people are bad, because they themselves are so lovely. But i know, there is someone cuter more lovely for you out there. You have to know that too, and the beleif in this will give you true hope. With your trust issues too. I know sooo many people with these issues. Over time as you learn how to dish out youyr trust it will get easier :) pls do me a favour and focus on the kind of person you want to be, and not how crap she is making you feel right now. Distract yourself, get into a new band or hobbie, and know that this is all part of a divine plan the universe has for your great journy. Me and my best friend had a fight, and last night i realised she deleted me off facebook. This isnt the type of fight we can repair. Having held so much angre in towards each other, if we were to become friends again, it would just be nothing but a bitter ploy. Its really sad, But shes a Taurus, taurus are know to keep their anger in and explode, and that is exactly what she did. It hurt me a lot that she could be so horrible, angry and scary and not feel one bit sorry for what she did. I'm a cancer and i am focusing on my singing (getting sing lessons), guitar lessons, travelling to third world countries with my nursing i am doing.. and just making friends.. It has made me sad that we are not friends, because a mutual friend killed himself last month, i can imagine we hav all been going through a bit of depression. But for now i dont want to waste what is left of my precious life. Just as you shouldn't :) i hope you feel better soon !!

Answer 3

well i am a girl n i sometimes pay attenton to other things more than the guy i am talking to on the phone (that only happens when i'm excited because i really like the guy) and it is obvious that she likes you,she wouldn't have accepted to go out wit u if she didn't.last but not least, maybe she wants to make u think that u r the cutie she is talking about

Answer 4

Maybe your conversations are long--or have many pauses in them--if the dog or young child walks in, you can't expect her to ignore them. As you said, you haven't even been on your first date yet.

Quite often I'll be talking to someone on the phone and am interrupted by someone. I just tell the person on the phone to hold on, and find out what the other person wants. If it is something serious, I'll tell the caller that I'll need to call him back.

I wouldn't worry about it--as someone else said, it's not as though she's in there with another guy or something.

Answer 5

Maybe she feels she doesn't have that much in common with you... YET. That's why you see how your conversation is with her during and after the first date. If she's still paying more attention to other people, she's either bored, got nothing to say or just insensitive.

Answer 6

No it is not necessarily a bad sign...the conversation may have been too long and she may be hinting that she wants to go, or she could be just preoccupied with the dog or kid...
If your going out then I don't think you've got much to worry about...and she may not be a phone person!

Answer 7

It's bad manners to be in-attentive to someone who is on the telephone attempting to engage in conversation if the other party is talking to their dog or some little kid. She should have more respect.

Answer 8

There's a big difference between "playing the game", "rude", and just plain "Attention Deficit Disorder"!
You are not going to be able to tell if it's the last until you see this person interacting with others, and seing if she does tht with them, too.
If it's just you,
you'd better nicely tell her what you see, ask for it to stop, and then ask why.
Your feelings are more important than the reason, and please don't forget that!

Answer 9

to me it is not a bad sign because when your on phone you have other things going on and when you are on a date you only have the date going on. if a friend is over she is going to talk to the friend more probably because she is right there and she can all ways call you back but it is harder to invite a friend over again. so it is not a bad sign.

Answer 10

Do the coffee date and see what she's like in person...If the attention is not there for you move on. There is more coffee dates over the horizon. Good-luck.