My best best best best best friend is finaly in her first real relasionship and she would toatally not beleive me if I told her about him cheating on her. I dont know what to do!!!
2007-01-20 07:57:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cannot go by hear say.Unless you have real proof you will just cause problems and probably lose your friend.
2007-01-20 08:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a proof first. If you have no proof, sorry to say, you will only be judged as being jealous because your best, best, best friend has this divided attention to you and her BF.
If you got a proof already or seen him kissing or intimate with another girl, tell your best friend about it. This will not be an assurance that your best friend will believe you. She might still decide, for her to see her BF in such intimate relationship with another girl.
I know you mean well and care for your best friend. Do what you think will be good for her and what she makes her happy.
All the best.
2007-01-20 08:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is only one thing to do...you owe it to your best friend to tell her the truth. you want whats best for her as well as for her to be happy so you should not let her be in a relationship with someone who does not appreciate her in the same way. i understand how difficult it will be to tell her but you have to. even if she does not believe you at first she will eventually realize that you are only looking out for her. she will see that you are doing what you think is best. sometimes the right thing to do is the most difficult.
2007-01-20 08:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that if she is really your best freind you tell her.She will problaly not believe you and she will probably even get mad at you for saying that.But that`s what a best freind do even if you have to put up with her being mad at you for a little while.Believe me she will get over it as soon as she finds out the truth and she will be very sorry believe me.
2007-01-20 08:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by www.sexybabe25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right in the way of her not believing you and if you tell her she is going to end the friendship thinking that your jealous... there is nothing you do except to give her lots of hugs and be there for her when things end between them... It would be best for you to let her find out on her own and you should know that you can't save her from heartache, she'll have to sadly experience this in order for her to become not naive eventually :) :) :)
2007-01-20 08:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out for sure. If he really is cheating on her talk to some of your other friends and tell her together. She's your friend, you can't let her stay with a jerk, and she'll be more willing to listen if she hears it from more than one person.
2007-01-20 08:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by lauren c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ich! That sounds kinda' like my difficulty.... besides, he's utilising you. you shop putting out for him there is not any longer reason for him to desire a relationship, he gets each and all of the perks devoid of any attempt!!! Sorry, woman, he's a jerk. He desires to enhance up and end being this sort of participant.
2016-10-07 11:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's good if u tell her...
if she doesn't believe u then there isn't much u can do but like...if she is like "he is so cute blah blah blah" or something, then show that u rn't interested to know -- but don't be mean...
she will eventually learn and if she finds out...she will understand that u were watching out for her
good luck
xao:)
2007-01-20 08:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should mind your own business until you have proof. Heresay is not something you should repeat. You are being a gossip.
2007-01-20 08:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to get real evidence of him cheating on her. anything-video camera, asking someone, pictures. anything that can prove to your friend to help her. tell her to dumo him to cuz he is a biotch.
2007-01-20 08:03:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋