I'm not that attractive, but I do my best to look good. I met this girl who is so cute. My question is have you ever been involve wit someone that wasn't your type or wasn't that good looking to you? If so, how did he grow on you? Do u still look for that ideal man when you wit the "ugly" guy?
2007-01-20 07:57:14 · 8 answers · asked by aries19768 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every girl is attracted to a different type of guy. If you look at my group of friends it is the same. I like nerds, my best friend likes "ugly" guys, my second friend likes jocks, and the fourth likes, well, random people.
I've been with guys I didn't necessarily find "attractive" at first, but they were gentlemanly and sweet, as well as funny, and I felt comfortable with them.
2007-01-20 08:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by blue_luna27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. I have liked a guy when I wasn't his type, but as for me, as long as the guy is alright on the inside. I mean a good personality can take you a long way! Good looks are just temporary. Some ppl are superficial though and just care about the outside. Some cute guys can be jerks so hey thats your advantage! I've never been with an "ugly" guy or a "hot" guy before and I don't really look for any guy I'm just single =P
2007-01-20 16:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are only skin deep. Yes, I've been involved with someone who really wasn't my type nor very good looking, but the more time we spent together, I really started to get interested in him. We had fun & laughed a lot when we were together & found out in time that we had so much in common. It's not about looks, it's all about what's inside. When I was dating that man, my eyes were never searching for a nice looking guy.
2007-01-20 16:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends all on the women. How superficial she is. Of corse looks do help. Many times that's how people even begin to hook up in the first place, there has to be some kind of chemistry there. But they don't have to be drop dead gorgeous. But anyhow, yes..I have dated several different type of people, and yes..some men that I wouldn't consider super model status, have actually grown on me. And what makes that happen, is his personality shines right through him. An ugly guy with a ****** up attitude..NO.
2007-01-20 16:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by RAW AND GRIM \,,/ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been with an ugly guy but I've been with guys that I knew I could do better. They had to basically kiss my @$$. I like to be pursued and the guy has to be super sweet and super available. If I blow the kid off, he has to not even say anything about and continue to try to plan stuff with me. First, I start feeling sorry for them because I'm so mean, then it's kinda like an "awww" thing. Then, they start to grow on me.
2007-01-20 16:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Looks are material. They have an impact, but the impact varies with each person. I, myself, am dating someone who others find unattracitve and not on my level. And when I first met him I wasn't physically attracted to him. But I didn't let that interfere with my feelings. His looks grew on me, led by his amazing personality, and how I find him cute and attractive. But really, it depends on the girl. Some girls are vain and let apperances guide their lives. Those are the girls who let something good pass them by because phsyically they aren't up to par. But those are the girls you don't want.
2007-01-20 16:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by toasterlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy i was with that wasn't that attractive didn't grow on me. but now he is married and has been for a year. just b/c ur not that attractive doesn't mean anything. if u r a gentleman then looks shouldn't matter to anyone.
2007-01-20 16:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by army girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't date someone I didn't think was my type. And, if he was my type, looks are irrelevant as you are attracted to their heart and character over looks.
2007-01-20 16:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋