Is this normal?
Don't get me wrong, I like it. We have great sex , and it is not selfish sex. We both get off, and have pleasure.
Will I wear out?
Will It wear out?
Do I only have so many shots left in my gun?
Gosh, this is a tough position to be in.
2007-01-20 07:48:50 · 26 answers · asked by thinkaboutmoney 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SOME additional information
No I am not a Minuteman, we usually both climax during our lovemaking. Not always, sometime she does and I don't or the other way around. We have a really good time taking care of each other.
I am 47. Yes I hold down a job. I am selfl-employed. And sometimes we do it a bit less, and others more.
It's crazy, I thought I would get tired of it, but we only seem to get stronger in our relationship.
And we have a good time out of bed too.
2007-01-20 08:13:23 · update #1
that is NOT normal...AT ALL
2007-01-20 07:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
As long as you have the energy and your partner is agreeing go for it. Do you guys even get a chance to talk? ;-)
I do believe I have read that there is such a thing as overdoing it and that it can affect the body. This is why I said you have to judge it by your own energy. Each person is different.
New relationships do tend to be hot and heavy. It might change in time but I don't think you will loose it. Just maybe slow down a little in time while enjoying the time of getting to know each other better :-)
2007-01-20 07:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
5 times a day,every day? Good effort! No,I don't think this is abnormal,you are still in the early stage of your relationship.You will probably get to a stage were it tails off to a few times a week.As long as the sex is still good this isn't a problem.You won't wear yourself out,it's a use it or lose it think.You have plenty more shots however tough the position is!
2007-01-20 07:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by New Boots. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not normal, but is it ALL you do? Do you talk in the meantime, and are you able to have fun together WITHOUT the sex? I would definitely sit down for a conversation. Make sure you're clear that you enjoy the sex, but that you don't want the relationship to be all about sex. Otherwise, when it DOES wear out, you won't have any relationship left.
2007-01-20 07:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by yocum1219 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The great thing about being a guy is that you never run out of bullets.
Hey, if you are holding down a job and can function in life, then try for 6 or 7 times a day.
2007-01-20 07:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by g g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it isn't interfering with your daily life (you still make it to work on time, you are both eating, etc) than it is normal for you. I cant' say that my husband and I had sex 5 times a day every day when we first got married, but it was definately a fair bit ;-) per day. And I enjoyed it, and he didn't wear out nor did he wear it out.
2007-01-20 07:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must be as juciy as a fresh water clam and drains you dry. Your not going to run out of bullets early in target pratice, but during the tournament you better keep an extra clip handy...perhaps a few pieces of cheese and milk on the table for back up energy boost.
2007-01-20 07:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down...this is normal for young couples. Yes eventually this will get old and wear out. Of course you will have plenty of shots left in your gun, but eventually you may not last. Slow it down to maybe three. And try not to do it every day.
2007-01-20 07:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a lot of guys would think they were in seventh heaven if they were in your shoes. You need to look at a few books on anatomy and talk to your doctor about whatever you need to know. Usually the rate diminishes as you age and, if you don't break it off, you will survive. Sooner or later the new will wear off and nature will take its course.
2007-01-20 07:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by waytooeasy67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..nice. As long as you both love it and you two are happy with it, I wouldn't worry too much. Rest in between though, or if you don't want to rest, alot of foreplay before you fill up again. Try and choose a balance if this is really bugging you. Go out, distract yourself, do something else for awhile.
2007-01-20 07:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what can i tell i mean if you got it like that hey good for you.But let me just give you an advise 5 months is not a long time in a relationship and sooner or later one of you is going to get tired.To me if you have sex at least every 3 days the pleasure its better and more exciting than doing it every day.I can tell you and assure you that much.
2007-01-20 07:56:54 · answer #11 · answered by www.sexybabe25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋