Okay...here's what's going down. I dated this guy for almost a year and then things started to go downhill. I broke it off with him and then two or thee days later he got a new girlfriend and started ignoring me completely. She broke up with him like last week and now he's getting all buddy buddy with me again. I really miss his company and the fact that he always makes me feel better. He seems genuine but he's a really good liar, a fact I found out the hard way. His brother told me a few days ago not to go out with him again and that kinda got my mind working. He's hitting on me again...and I feel really stupid but, does he want to get back with me or what's going on? Help!!
2007-01-20 07:48:16 · 6 answers · asked by Lola 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For those of you telling me to get back with him, I still live with my parents and they hate his guts. If I took him back...ugh...I don't even want to think about it. I mean, don't get me wrong, I missed him, but I started to move on, which is what I was trying really hard to do, and now the thought of all this makes me (literally) sick to my stomach.
2007-01-20 08:01:25 · update #1
What do I do? Help over here guys!!
2007-01-22 08:25:37 · update #2
He seems like he's just the kind of guy who has to have a girlfriend all the time. Don't give him the time of day -- you'll just rehash what you went through the first time. If he had a new girlfriend a few days after you guys broke up, it's obvious that he doesn't have a whole lot going on, emotionally.
2007-01-20 07:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by Whitney Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel where your coming from. Basically what he's doing is using you to get his mind off of his other ex....dont let him do it because its just going to make you look like an even bigger fool then you might already feel. If his own brother is telling you not to go back with him then thats a definite sign. Cut off all communication with him and treat him the way he treated you when he got his new girlfriend.
2007-01-20 15:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by @bsolutely $weet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you broke it off with him, and then he rebounded to the other girl. well NOW he's trying to rebound back to you. you said that you had ended the relationship, so perhaps there is some feelings he has for you still, and is hoping that he can get back in there with you. I mean, 2-3 days after you dumped him and he's out with another girl?? that's just crazy, no wonder it didn't work out. my bet is that he genuinely misses you, and if he is lying at all it's just to get back into your good graces so you'll take him back. I don't think he's trying to play you, he just wants you back.
Now the ball is in your court, my dear. Remember, you broke it off with him, so you have to ask yourself if you think it will work out again, or if you'll just end breaking up with him shortly after you start going out again.
I think that you should just be friends for now. If anything transpires, then take it really slowly. You don't want to hurt him again, and you especially you don't want to get yourself into a position when you're going to get yourself hurt. Good luck!
2007-01-20 15:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth it. If you did'nt like him in the first place and broke it off, there is no reason why you should get back with him. Move on !
2007-01-20 17:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by jackcal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl if his own brother told you not to go out with him... i has to be for a really good reason!...
besides... why is he coming back to you when things didn´t worked out with the other one... and you say he´s a really good liar... i would have to say that he´s problem is that he only wants to play...
2007-01-20 15:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by romigirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want give him another Chance, but he already got one and he blew it. I He left once he might do it again. I think you deserve better.
2007-01-20 15:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by pianodude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋