She broke off with her BF 6 mth back.
That was the time i get to know her from my former crush. She was devastated then. I promise my ex crush i will make her stand up and move on. Finally or rather apparently she move on.
I wake her up everyday for work.
Then i realise i fell in love with her.
I ask her if i go after her do i stand a chance.
Her reply: She is happy the way she is now and Tentativelydont wish to have any changes. For future she dont not know.
I ask her whether is it a total rejection.
Her reply: I told u already. Now i dont wanna commit anything.. Future i wun know.
I guess she still brood over the past.
Do i stand a chance for THE FUTRE or m i being rejected?
She still talk to me and text with me..even i pop up this question.
2007-01-20 07:37:41 · 4 answers · asked by Eddy W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she likes you too but it will take one hell of time for her to admit it to herself or even you. She is grateful for what you have done but knows pain is inevitable and does not want you to be the one to hurt her. So the best thing to do is respect that and if u must pursue her don't make it so obvious to her.
2007-01-20 07:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ca$h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that she is trying to gently let you down. You're probably not going to get past the friend stage with this person. On a brighter note, you can never have too many friends, and having a friend who is a girl can help you learn a lot about them (girls, that is).
Also, she's not saying no permanently. I would let her be for a while, let her grow up a bit. Maybe sometime down the line it'll work out, but I wouldn't stop looking elsewhere. You never know, if you meet someone else, she might realize that you're a great catch. BUT, don't do it just to make her jealous. That can be spotted from a mile away.
2007-01-20 15:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by jackie jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Edd,
Know that when ones heart is broken,it takes a long time to be mended especially if she did truly love her ex.So my advice to you is,give her time do not rush thing otherwise if she accepts to be in a relationship with you now...as she said it is not gonna be for long time.
2007-01-20 15:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm... she could actuallly be telling you that he likes you but doesn´t want a bf right now... she´s enjoying the way everything is right now... but she´s not saying that she dones´t want to be w you ever.... just make sure she knows how you feel and that she can be confortable with you...
Godd luck!!
2007-01-20 15:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by romigirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋