why do i always fall for married men. men i no i can never really have
2007-01-20 07:27:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I honestly think you find it easier some how, to have a married man...it's almost like you want a man to have that bond, connection, but that you also like no commitments thing also, you like your own space, i don't know maybe you're not ready to settle down as yet so this arrangement suits you better.... i don't think you are weird there's always a reason why we do things, no doubt if you search deep you will find the answers good luck.
2007-01-20 07:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you don`t want real relationship. You go for the unachievable.
Ypou are eihter afraid, incapable or simply a free spirit, who can`t get into a real realtionship right now.
Don`t worry hun, make the best of it, enjoy this time, and squezee as much $$$ (or whatever you want) you can from the guilty and scared ones that will fall back to you!
2007-01-20 15:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by corp_underground 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want a commitment. Dating married people is, in your mind, "safe" because you don't ever have to fear being asked for commitment, marriage, etc.
If you have had him, it only means he can be had. It is no prize to you, if he cheats on her then he absolutely will cheat on you, too.
You fall for married men because you have no self esteem. Grow some. Respect yourself and find your equal. There's something out there you need to learn. Sign up for a gender neutral class...chess? auto body shop? home improvement? tennis? swimming? dance? carpentry? Another good idea is your favorite church's singles group or divorced group.
2007-01-20 15:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mature Witch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that you fall for them, it's just that your challenge is with married Men that are complete until someone lowers the boom.
2007-01-20 15:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i think its the thrill that gets us - just the fact that you knwo they have womoen but their after you too...but that happens to me too and i thouhgt something was wrong with me but i got over it...i just keep my extra eye open from now on
2007-01-20 15:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're afraid of commitment and you know you're "safe" from that with a married man.
2007-01-20 15:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forbidden fruit is always going to be more tempting than stuff thats readily available, just check out the first part of the bible!
2007-01-20 15:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by IshotJR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz you like mature man or simply in your mind if a man it's taken then he must be a good one.
2007-01-20 15:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by LynX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you DARK ANGEL. Its just the way you think. Im sure your a really nice peorson.
2007-01-20 15:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are afraid of being rejected. Please seek counseling to work on your self-esteem. You deserve someone who will love you back and will make a commitment.
2007-01-20 15:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by Isabella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋