I often give my boyfriend blow jobs, but it can take him up to an hour to c u m. i want to know some techineques so that i can please him sooner and better?
2007-01-20 07:17:23 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys are more visual. Make it look believable and use your hand more. Really get into it and he'll respond. Don't just go through the motions. He has to believe that you want to do it.
2007-01-20 07:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by BrewMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As embarrassing as it might seem, the best way to find the things that really please your partner is through communication. You need to talk openly about what does and doesn't feel good. I realize that it's not the sexiest thing in the word to ask for direction when you're trying to be "in the moment" but there is not tried-and-true sexual tactic that works on every man. People are different-- what feels good to one person isn't what is going to feel good to the next. Contrary to the "men are all the same" theory, men are NOT all the same (nor are women) and the only way to learn what feels good to each partner is to talk about it.
It may be easier to approach the subject when you are *not* mid make-out. If you are embarrassed to have the conversation in person, try over the phone or over chat. Obviously, if you are in person, you can ask for a demonstration or play around some, but I'm trying to take into account that you may not be comfortable with that at first. Tell your partner that you want to have a better idea of how to turn him on-- and here's an important sign-- he should want to know how to better turn you on as well. As the trust in your relationship builds, you should be able to have more open communication both during sex and when you are not mid-coitus.
2007-01-20 07:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lucid Dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you both are ready take it up a notch and keep going. blow jobs dont have to solve everything giving hima hand job first already geets him horny and then let him finger you or something so hes getting up there then give hima blwo job that he can never forget...go in deep.
2007-01-20 07:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl! An HOUR? Maybe you just need to do some major reading, girl! Seriously, if you don't know how to make him get that far, you might need to read up on it.
2007-01-20 07:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by jdd's_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First he needs help. Check for a pulse. Call me and we'll get together. I'll give you some hands on training.
2007-01-20 07:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Buddy Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not only should you suck it but play with the balls jerk it off kiss it and when your doing it dont act as if it were a job do it like it turns you on
2007-01-20 07:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Calderon C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tease him b4, tell him ur not wearing any undies, brush urself hard up against him...and do it 4 ages before u even consider going down there. also... ask him EXACTLY how he likes to be touched...that way you know wat ur doing is working... moan when youre down there...the humming sound app is a huge turn on.. n just basically let him know u r really into it... he will be too....dont foret to use your hands too!!
gd luck
2007-01-20 07:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you will need to i m me and i can give you some pointers.. but i will get kicked off by talking about it here... have fun.. just play all your attention on the head.. if that helps.
2007-01-20 07:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not believe you are complaining he takes to long in a few years we will be complaining that he finishes to soon.
2007-01-20 07:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sensual candles and music, dim the lights, us guys also like it when you play with the balls, and softly rub your hands on our body when your giving a *******
2007-01-20 07:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by chris_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋