I have been talking to 2 guys since my ex broke up with me.
And one likes me ALOT.
He even told me.
I told him I liked him to..
But the problem is I don't like him THAT MUCH.
He is nice and everything.
He just acts like a gangster when he is a white cracker.(lol)
He asked me out and I told him no I'm not ready for a boyfriend since Dylan broke up with me. It seems like he is rushing me though.
And the other guy,
Is so nice and cute.
He is exactly the type i like.
Punk.
He loves to flirt with me. You can just tell.
And I love flirting with him.
But he got suspended for 3 days for talking out of turn.
My problem is I can't choose.
I known them both for a good while.
#1 just isn't my type, but I can't bear to break his heart.
I asked my friends and they both gave me different answers.
Please help.
I can't pick one.
I was thinking about staying single a while and just flirting, but I can't flirt with one, because I came to the conclusion I don't like him LIKE THAT.
2007-01-20 07:09:44 · 9 answers · asked by Itsallaboutmehunni 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But i cant hurt him.
Its too much.
And he is kinda perverted..which is a total turn off for me.
How can i let down number 1?
I REALLY like #2..
Im just lost
who should i pick?
#1?
#2?
Single & flirt?
and if so,, how can I let down #1 easily????
2007-01-20 07:12:05 · update #1
because if i date number 2 im sure number one will find out
because of the school rumors......
and i dont know how it will affect him?
it might piss him off.
it might make him sad,,
I D K!!
2007-01-20 07:14:19 · update #2
Sounds like you need to go with #2. To turn down guy #1, just remember to reassure him that he is a GREAT guy, but he's just not exactly what you're looking for in a relationship right now.
Don't go for #2 yet unless you are absolutely sure that you are really ready for another relationship (I don't know how long it's been since you and Dylan have broken up..). You don't want to rush into anything too serious only to realize that it's not the right time for you to give up your heart again.
Good luck, hun. =) I know you'll make the right decision.
2007-01-20 07:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Delvala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its easy,
take number 2.
and first off you should have never told #1 u liked him if you didnt cause you cant take smthing like that back.....
tell him that u just wanna be friends....
there is no way that you can NOt hurt him,
but hes a big boy he'll get over it...
just ake sure that after u tell him things are still cool between you two.
good luck,
and i i dnt think that u should just stay single,
cause then you would just be hrting them both...
2007-01-20 15:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by m V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah so ive had that problem happen alot to me too. i made the wrong descission to stay single and flirt with them because then i am really just leading them on and thats not good. i would choose the 2nd one because he is the one you truely like and he will make you happy and i know you dont want to break the other guys heart but its better to tell him the truth then date him and not be very happy and break his heart. if you get what im saying?
2007-01-20 15:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't choose either one! I would be single for while and have fun! You are still young! You have a whole life ahead to have to worry about a guy. I tell them both that you don't want a relationship. Good Luck!
2007-01-20 15:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered yourself and just want us to tell you to dump #1 and go for #2. Personally I would drop them both and find someone worthy of you.
2007-01-20 15:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#2
You can't go out with a guy out of pity. That's pathetic.
Would you want a guy you like to go out with you out of pity even though you knew he didn't really like you all that much?
Let guy #1 down. Don't let him have his hopes up when he shouldn't. That's just mean. Way worse than telling him what's up.
2007-01-20 15:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by sorcergeek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your in a tough position! from reading your ? my opinon for you is to stay single......i am in the same situation and it sucks.....do what u feel is the right thing to do......have fun and be single cause other stuff might come your way.......and if u are single they both like u anyway.....be on top of your game babe....
2007-01-20 15:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice, do all of you a favor and stay single till you know what you want.
2007-01-20 15:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by lynda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick the one with the biiger dikk
2007-01-20 15:12:43 · answer #9 · answered by Rusty 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋