Ok I have been dating this guy for 2 months. I really care alot about him and I know he feels the same way. He has practically said everything BUT I love you. He tells me all the time how he likes me so much and cares so much for me. That I'm his "everything", etc...lol....mushy kinda stuff. So I feel like I love him. I know sometimes it's hard to tell but I really do feel this way and I'm thinking of telling him. Do you guys think it's too soon?? I was thinking of waiting til Valentine's Day b/c that will be 3 months that we have been together. Any ideas of a sweet way to tell him?? Unless he ends up telling me first of course....?? lol Ahhh!!
2007-01-20 07:00:41 · 22 answers · asked by Kitten 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Valentine's Day is a great idea! It's important to have patience, and if you're going to say that, you should make sure you really mean it and won't change your mind the next day or something.
2007-01-20 07:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a funny memory of mine: I was with my boyfriend for two months when he told me "Akiidoka.... I love you." He told me that he wasn't sure whether he was truly "in love" or not, but he said it anyway. I was so happy and quite dazed. Now, however, we get on each other's nerves and we push each other's buttons. He cares for me still and I care for him.
I think you can say "I love you" now. He's at his all-time-high. The reason why he's not saying it is because he thinks that it would scare you away. I think you need to step up to the plate and say it. But keep in mind, just beucase you love each other now, doesn't mean you'll love each other for all eternitiy. Look at me and my boyfriend. We were exactly like you and your boyfriend.
Anyway.
Congrats, Happy Valentine's Day (early)
Me Hopes me Helped =D
2007-01-20 07:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never too soon to tell someone how you feel about them. The heart is the strongest muscle you will ever have and if you really feel it... I mean really feel it to the point that you cry just thinking how much you love that person, then tell him. The best way to tell him is using your best qualities and grasp it into something he can appreciate for years to come.
2007-01-20 07:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, Valentine's day sounds perfect in this way you will make this day more romantic and special. Don't frighten him waiting for a response after your statement just kiss him as a proof of your love! Good Luck!
2007-01-20 07:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is too soon of that is what your HEART is telling you. I would just hug him and tell him "I want you to know that I really love you". Don't make a BIG production of it, but also don't let him think it is meaningless to you.
Or maybe send him a card that has " I love you" written in it...that way it takes some of the nervousness and pressure out of the situation
2007-01-20 07:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny And '74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Valentines day sounds like a good idea, very romantic!
But if you want to say it sooner than then go for it, its never too soon and if you like him that much then maybe you should tell him?
Good luck with everything!
2007-01-20 07:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by Gary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. My girlfriend and I said we loved each other in our 3rd or 4th month. Now, in our 7th, she is unsure whether she really does.. It's a term that is thrown around a lot. It's best to wait until the novelty of the relationship is gone. Then you can really tell whether you do or not.
2007-01-20 07:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 11:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes 'I love you' this 3 words is not necessary as there's other way to describe it such as communication, emotions, actions. Well I'm a guy yet I never say those 3 words to my ex. And it all worked out fine.
2007-01-20 07:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that you really do feel this way then you should tell him how you feel. If you ever feel that strongly about anyone its best to just get it out there and tell them. You only live once, right?
2007-01-20 07:06:00 · answer #10 · answered by georgianadarcy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋