Your man is obsessed with sex and porn, he’s always talking about cheating and what would you do if he did, and he is obsessed with women and porn and wanted you to be ok with this. He only has female friends and always presents himself as single to women and has started chatting with women on singles sites and chat forums. But claims he loves you. What would you think of this? What would you do?
2007-01-20 06:42:24 · 11 answers · asked by passionatepclover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would think he is just using me as someone to be there when it's convenient for him.
2007-01-20 06:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Nette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack my bags and leave, since this will not get any better. Love is different things for different people, especially when he can say what he wants. Words are cheap, but actions speak volumes. I can say that I love you too. but that doesn't mean diddly squat.
In any case, you are not in a good situation and he does not love you, trust me on this. If he would, regardless of his porn addiction, he would not be out there hunting for other women freely and openly, You deserve better, and you don't need to catch STD'S or HIV. Right?
2007-01-20 06:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from this guy before you get pregnant and you have to deal with him for the rest of your life....hes using you and if a man knows that your not comfortable with something he says or does and he's still bringin it up then he doesn't love you....and I've never met a man that talked about cheating and wasn't already doing it....he's trying to get your reactions to see if you'll be stupid enough to stick around if he ever finally admits to it....
2007-01-20 06:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by mamasita83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...you JUST described by EXhusband.
I was okay with the porn, b/c it can be fun for two. *wink*
but......mine WAS cheating and that's why he was always asking what I would do.....and he only had female friends, etc.
Run the other way, hon!!! Never look back!!!!!!
2007-01-20 06:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by BarbieGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump right away! I know you can do better. You need a man that's going to respect and love you for you.
2007-01-20 06:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Big Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the baggage. Too weird for me.
2007-01-20 06:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMPPPP HIMMMM!!!!! Now. lol. If that's not a wake up call, I don't know what else is! You'd be better off single, girl!
2007-01-20 06:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously aren;t comfortable with what's going on...that's the reason you should walk and walk now
2007-01-20 06:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by Brandi S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt even think twice if i were u i would dump him....good luck mate cya
2007-01-20 06:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt deserve you !
2007-01-20 06:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by gelareh p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋