Is that two many? It just if they are bad in bed ..I have to move on. A new guy im dating asked me how many and i told him and he said that was too many. Well I told him I lost my virginity at 14 and that should be a reasonable number. I am not a slut..most of these happened when i was in between boyfriends..when i find someone I am devoted to him..and I have only had 2 relationships. So tell me what u guys think
2007-01-20 06:38:21 · 18 answers · asked by Know what I mean? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just got out a three year relationship (ended in october) and I was only with that guy.I just got back into the dating scene,but im not sexually active right now. I am easy..it just that i am very picky and a guy could have the best personality ..but its like if they dissapoint me in bed..i just stop talking to them..thats why the number is rather high..but its not like I have guys having sex with me and leaving..thats not the case (they turn into pest after that)
2007-01-20 06:49:18 · update #1
I do get checked regulary,I care about my health! I am perfectly fine.
2007-01-20 06:50:56 · update #2
well..I have never slept with one or be in a relationship...and am 19...I've being pursued so many times..
anyway to conclude with your question..there is nothing to feel bad about..cuz u can't change it..just move on...there r girls that slept with more than 11 guys..I know and they're just 18..what about guys..they sleep around all the time.At least u were honest with..and don't mind how he feels..but there will have a time he will think of u being honest and brave to say that...So its no time to feel bad now..jus move on..and let this guy know that..at least u were being honest with him.Cuz am sure there r things he have done and u may not like it..but u have to accept it..Good luck..
2007-01-20 06:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Annabella 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there is any number of guys that is "too litte or too many". You do what you think is best for you. However, if you think a guy is bad in bed, help him out! He'll never get better if you don't teach him. Also, it makes you out as somewhat of a hoe if you just go around looking for great sex. Try to get into the guy's personality, and since you have only had two relationships, try to hold off on the sex for a little bit, and I bet you'll be happier.
Good luck :-)
2007-01-20 14:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
That's too many. Slow down girl. It's not the end of the world. Just pace yourself. Maybe its not too many unless some of these guys know each other. You can have sex with whoever and as many as you want to but just don't let a bunch of gossiping guys hurt your reputation. You're not hurting anything else. You're just excersizing it.
2007-01-20 14:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. That's too many. 11 in 8 years? 11 times in 8 years wouldn't be bad, but 11 different guys? That's too much. It should probably be more like 1 a year. If you're sexually active.
2007-01-20 14:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Whateva 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, don't do the 'how many partners' thing with someone you are dating. It tends to cause problems and acutally, it's none of their business. As long as you are safe, protecting yourself against STDs, and getting tested regularly, they don't need to know how many people you have slept with.
Do what works for you...sex is fun and meant to be enjoyed...be honest with your partners, and be safe!
2007-01-20 14:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you sound really easy. it makes you wonder what it really takes to get you into bed. not to mention it shows lack of commitment on your end - or the guy left because you did sleep with him. and the fact that you lost it at 14 shows your not that picky on who you chose.
maybe you should make wiser choices instead of trying each out for a test drive.
2007-01-20 14:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by mike s 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Experience is NOT a bad thing. But, diseases and pregnancy IS bad. Just protect yourself, in case you haven't already contracted something that has no cure.
2007-01-20 14:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
That's way to many. Slow down and take it easy.
2007-01-20 14:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by GENE D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is quite alot to be honest. Well perhaps you need to slightly change yourself.
2007-01-20 14:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm maybe it's not enough!!!!....you obviously havent met mister right yet....hey!!! and by the way....some things in life are meant to be kept secret.....like how many you have slept with unless you are boasting!!!!!
2007-01-20 14:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋