Hi, I have been going out with a boy called sam for about 3 months and he has asked me to make out with him, i obviously said yes but i have never made out before so i needed to know how do you do it in stages and also what should i do to remind him that i want to make out and could we do it now? Please help thank you
2007-01-20 06:37:18 · 8 answers · asked by Holz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax, be comfortable and natural, he is expecting it......so at least you dont have to worry about feeling awkward or stupid, which is usually the only problem when it comes to kissing. When you guys start just put your mouths together, exchange your tongues in eachothers mouths and sort of gently massage eachothers. Trust me, it will come surprisingly natural, especially if Sam has experience with it, and is able to lead you, just follow him. If you still feel that you are doing something wrong.....and could be better.....why not ask him what he thinks?? If he knows you have never done it before, and understands you are nervous, then he should be respectful about that. Don't let him take advantage of you, do not be nervous and frozen still, show him you are calm, relaxed and confident!!
2007-01-20 06:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by frances_the_mute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, there's no need to panic . Something that you have never done can be as easy as tieing your shoe or riding a bike. with a few simple steps i will do what i can to guide you into a sensational kiss.
first off, you don't want to jump on him and do it so give him a few hints.
sit next to him make sure the time is right: hold his hand and lean your head down on his shoulder either he might look at you and he might not.
if he does then look him in the eyes. after that you need to go closer and closer to him.once you guys are in distance to kiss each other just tilt your head a little opposite of his. first start out with a formal kiss like a peck maybe even a few of those before you guys use tongue. it's not really a good kiss if you go into tongue right away and after that your all set...
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-01-20 14:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well I just had my first makeout session like last month (Second kiss). It's really simple, but it is nervewracking.
Just go to a secluded spot where it's just the two of you, like on a couch in a room when no one is there. Then just look him in the eyes and he will definitely want to kiss you. Just slowly put your arms around his neck and part your lips and then start kissing. The guy I was doing it with immediately slid his tongue into my mouth...and just massage his tongue with yours...just follow his lead. You can end it at anytime with you, and it's usually best to wtih a sensual peck on the lips.
Good luck! ;-)
2007-01-20 14:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow and easy. Things will progress naturally. Dont be nervous but set boundaries for yourself too. Dont be in a rush to loose something you'll never have again.
2007-01-20 14:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you went out for 3 months doesn't mean your ready for MAKING OUT!! The KISS should come out of nowhere not because you ''THINK'' your ready.
2007-01-20 15:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by .-Lissa` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this makes no sense so what? u aranged a date to make out????? if he asked u wouldnt u do it right away?
2007-01-20 14:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to let it happen naturally,
2007-01-20 14:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww, how cute!!!
i just think you should just go for it...think about it. either way it goes..ur gonna have memories that will last FOREVER!!!
2007-01-20 14:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by so_much_2_life! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋