im so depressed! i use to go to a private shool. and i was the Queen Bee. everyoen loved me i ahd tons of friends and i was always happy and smiling. now this year im in highschool, and i went to a new school which ispublic. I hate it so much! i have no friends. i almsot staqrt crying evryday ins chool but i am so upset. how cna my lfie be soooo amzing and turn to total crap jsut like that????? help me i cna't take school anymore1 i may hurt myself!
2007-01-20 06:20:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and start making an effort. Its hard when you change schools but you can settle in if you try. Join clubs, smile at people, try out for sports, whatever it takes to get to know people better. Talk to a school councellor for more support;
2007-01-20 06:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Life is what you put into it. New schools are hard. It helps to have other hobbies and extra curricular activities. Being a part of a team helps you fit in. Have you made an effort to talk to other kids? If you have a stuck up persona about you they may not feel they are good enough for you. Life does go on after high school. It will not always go your way, but for the most part it is pretty good. Smile even when you don't want to, it will make you feel better. Find peace in prayer to your higher power, and be thankful for your family and health. As far as hurting yourself, talk to your parents. Maybe you need to see a psychiatrist. If you have suicidal ideations go to the ER. I wish you well and leave you with a couple of sayings; Life's hard, get a helmet. When given lemons make lemonade
2007-01-20 14:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you have come up against the first of many obstacles that will present themselves in your life. How you handle this now will set the tone for your future. Your mindset is going in the wrong direction. If you were queen bee and everyone loved you before then set out to accomplish that goal again. Life takes effort and giving up or caving in to depression is not the answer. Stand tough, stand tall and tell yourself this is not going to get you down. Try to think of all the things in your life that is wonderful. It may be tough today but tomorrow can be a much better day...go out and make it so. Hurting yourself will accomplish nothing...talk with your father or mother about how you are feeling and remember God loves you and He has plans for you.
2007-01-20 14:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jan J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey now dont go hurting yourself over school school is nothing compared to your friends you have hang out with your friends from your private school and after school and stuff
Don't show how upset you are at your new school first start on the teacher's start talking to them more, eventually your gonna become friends with everyone because occasionally other kids in the school might have questions too you might get up there havin to ask your question in front of them, don't be pressured be yourself and just make convorsations like "Oh girl where did you get that purse from its so cute?" it works believe me and eventually it will work out with everyone and if ya gotta do any partner things with some hot guys flirt with them shoot you have nothing to lose. Just remember to be yourself! And you'll make it through! I hope this works cus school's a lot of fun just make sure you focus on school too not just your impression Good Luck
2007-01-20 14:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa Lu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life turned to crap because you aren't the popular girl anymore? Time to wake up and smell what life is. You can't always be the popular person in life. Learn to accept that you are a fraction of a whole. Life does not revolve around you or anyone else. You can learn to be outgoing and make new friends wherever you may go, but as we grow older, we become more mature. Being mature means we don't worship other people as if they are Gods. Leave that for the teenage days, which is still ridiculous.
Bottom line...get off your pity potty and start making friends. Be friendly, be nice, be pleasant and be yourself. Life is what you make it, it's not handed to you.
2007-01-20 14:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by S H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't hurt yourself! Just reach out to people at your new school who maybe sit next to you in class or something. Thats how I coped with my loss of friends when I entered high school-I came from a private school as well. Don't act like your still the queen bee or anything, just be normal and see where that takes you. Good luck.
2007-01-20 14:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the High School Book Club or something and make friends
2007-01-20 14:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an egomaniac with an inferiority complex. You act all big around people, but you really think you are crap, don't you? You need professional help. A lot of people have this. Stop thinking about nothing but yourself. Go volunteer somewhere so you can realize how good you really have it.
2007-01-20 14:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel your pain i went to private, now i go to publick. i hate it. i have no friends, my mom says i need to, but i don;t want to be friends with those kids, they are sooooooo mean, ignorent, they think they are alllllllllllllll that. and next year i have to go to high school with them. god! grades are bad, my life sucks. no father around, no family, only child just mom, i wich i coould die. i mean no body would care. most people at my school are black which makes it worse! people make fun of me, call me ugly alot, african booty scratcher, gay, dark, all kinds of stuff. if i became a pretty succesful actress, well see whose laughing. dont hurt your selfe transfer.
much love. peace
2007-01-22 18:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by save an egg crack, a smile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about it. I had a hard time in school because we moved around so much.
2007-01-24 09:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by caribbeanmeme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋