We never fought, had a lot in common, got along. The whole reason we broke up was his ex-fiancee called him and wanted to get back together. This is a girl that he's known all of his life, and he says the only reason he chose her over me is because of the history they have together. I was very angry with him at first and spent some time ignoring him, not talking to him at all... in the end though we made back up and agreed to stay friends. I remain his devoted friend, and I spend every Friday night with him in some form or fashion when she's not there (she moved back in with him). She was home one Friday, and he had one of his friends pick him up so he could come out and see me. However, it is all totally innocent, we never do anything more than talk and hug. I want more, though. He's my best friend, but he's so crazily attractive, it's distracting. It's hard to be a good friend when all I can think about is kissing him. Should I tell him I want him back or just stay quiet?
2007-01-20 05:18:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are attracted to a chocolate thats not yours.Go buy your own chocolate, the chocolate you are looking for is already bought buy someone else. There are alot of chocolates that are even better that of what you are attracted to.
- Before there was one chocolate that I loved the most, it was called Toblerone (I was so attracted to it I just wanted to be with it everywhere I go). Well now I found a new chocolate that is even better than Toblerone. Its called Galaxy,,,,Dont go finding one because you cant find it in north america I think, because my uncle brought it from Jidah.
- Sorry about that I just love chocolate,.. now I will answer the question. If a person told you that they love someone else, will you still bother them that you love them.?
- Dont tell him, the best thing to do is try to get away from him for a little while. Talk to him on the phone but dont meet him every friday. Once a month to meet is ok. By the way try to find a new chocolate, I meant another guy.
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- I think a person is half a soul...the other half is the partner.
A person is not complete until they meet there soul mate. Thats why we keep falling in love, but dont worry oneday you will fall in love with your other half of soul.
- I hope you understand what I wrote, my english writing is no good.
2007-01-20 05:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by mhshhaduw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have to first understand that he chose her instead of you, I am one to believe that you can not stay friends with an ex because one of the two will always have more feelings of wanting more than the other and in this case you are the one with those extra feelings. I mean there could be more feelings inside him also because he will drop things to go and see you on Fridays but you must also consider that maybe he could be a very insecure guy that needs the attention of two or three women at a time. I think you should come clean and if he still chooses her over you then forget about him and move on, there is probably something better out there for you and you are too distracted with this situation that you don't even see it.
2007-01-20 05:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by WJMA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I think that's total bullshit. I don't want to sound mean but he got back together with her because he still has feelings for her, not because of their "history". I dated one of my good friends for a while and then he broke up with me for my best friend. To this day, even though it's been years and I am in a happy relationship, he says he made a mistake and wants to get back together. I would never leave my boyfriend now to get back with the other guy just for the "history". It's great that you're friends but try to move on and find someone else. You deserve soo much better.
2007-01-20 05:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jess B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally it's not a good idea to get with someone you've already been with and broke up with, but you two seem like you have a lot in common. telling him you want him back would destroy you're relationship, I'm not gonna lie. instead, wait. I'm guessing him getting back with his fiancee isn't going to last for very long (though i can't make an accurate judgement because I don't know them) so if he means that much to you, just wait, maybe get with another guy while your waiting. A boyfriend would be an excellent jealousy tool and would get the guy who got back with his ex from thinking of you as a "back-up"
Best of luck to you
-Raven
2007-01-20 05:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by The Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off all they are not in a pic togethyer so in order for me to see how they look togethyer and Have to keep clicking on each pic to get a mental note and pretend like they're in the pic together.Secondly you seem very bitter to be asking strangers how your ex looks with his new girl...jealous much?I'm not tryna be mean but this question is pathetic..Yes shes beautiful and he's ok...looks better in the second pic, looks ugly in the first pic but looks aren't everything.Just
2016-03-29 06:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to speak up and tell him just what you wrote here, at least in sentiment. You have nothing to loose and all to gain. Love is hard enough to find without challenges made to it. If he should protest, and I don't think he will, give him that kiss you're thinking too much about. That'll do it.
2007-01-20 05:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by photogbob2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only should you not get back together with him, you need to find something else to do on Friday nights. Move on.
2007-01-20 05:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by Lolly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-03 11:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh this is hard ya know what i would do is tell him ya know i love you so god damn much but i can't be friends if i think this way ya know tell him either ya love her and don't want me in ur life and tell him its too painful for you because you love him and it hurts you seeing him with her and tell him you either want me in ur life or not cuz i don't want to be just friends and tell him you don't want to be friends if he is with her maybe he'll understand maybe he won't ya know? and also tell him if he loves you he will be with you if he don't then he stays with her if he doesn't that just proves he is an asshole! hope that helps
2007-01-20 05:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u need to MOVE ON, if u give him a chance to tap that a$$ i bet he will but he is not goin to stay with u, he left u once for her with no good reason except he had know her longer (what da ****), he will do it again
2007-01-20 05:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by kelis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋