Generally men are more interested in having sex than women, everybody knows that. I say to women that if you don't find sex particularly interesting or wouldn't mind if you never had sex again then you must be doing something wrong! So to all the girls out there, if you weren't that interested in sex would you still give your bf plenty of lovin, bl*wjobs and generally keep him happy in that regard? This is assuming of course that he isn't lazy returns all the sexual favours! Any thoughts also welcome.
2007-01-20 05:14:21 · 15 answers · asked by T M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha I'd say that I like sex more often than my boyfriend does, he can't keep up! That being said, when i'm not in the mood (not that often) I give him a good time, usually ending up with a bl*wjob. I realize that men "need" sex, so figure I may as well do my part to keep my man happy in that regard.
2007-01-20 05:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by ang 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If there are women out there that are not enjoying sex then maybe it is the men in their life that is not satisfying them. If a woman has a great sex life and a man that makes her bell ring, then she would be very interested in having sex all the time. Some men really think that all they have to do is stick it in and a woman is supposed to be thrilled with that. Then on the flip side, a woman needs to tell her man what she wants and needs to enjoy sex. Some men watch their wives or girl friends get undressed and they are turned on and ready before she has a chance to brush her teeth and get into bed. Then when she gets into bed, he is all over her and she has not had a chance to even catch her breath let alone be thinking about sex. If he would lay there and talk with her for a while and hold her then it would give her time to warm up. Sometimes women turn away from letting a man hold her for fear it will lead to sex which she is not ready for yet. But if a man is persistent then she will give in to him but her heart won't be in it and neither will her passion. Then the man thinks she is frigid. I was always told that there are no frigid women in this world only bad lovers and the person who told me that was my Dad. He would say, if a man can't take a lot of time for you and make sure you are enjoying every minute of love making then he doesn't deserve you. It helped me to know that the man I married had better be a great lover among other things. I was lucky, I found one.
2007-01-20 05:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by sunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
I don't always want to have sex everytime my bf does, but as we don't see each other very often he always wants lots of sex. And to a degree i give him what he wants. I don't take the lead unless i'm the one wanting it, but i will pleasure him. Don't do bl*wjobs, but there are other things that he really really likes.
I love pleasuring my boyfriend, not just sexually. When he does come up and stay i look after him, i would bend over backwards to keep him happy. And i know that he would do the same for me.
2007-01-20 05:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by Iccle bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more likely that women who don't care for sex have had poor partners. You're more likely to lose interest in something if it isn't fun and if they aren't having fun at sex chances are it's more because their partner isn't paying attention to them, pleasing them, or letting them know how to please him.
Sex is supposed to be fun...few people are truly BAD at it, but if you have selfish or unskilled partners who caused experiences to be less than good for you, it's only natural that you would not look forward to sex, would be inhibited with regard to sex, and less likely to pursue honing your own skills.
If a man wants to be "looked after" sexually then he'd better "look after" the woman (or whomever his partner is) he's with. It's a 2-way street. If a couple gets together and one LOVES sex and the other can take it or leave it, then perhaps they are not a good match...but they might want to check it out together first to see if the uninterested person's issues stem from poor past lovers and perhaps the current lover will change their view of sex.
2007-01-20 05:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I got to the stage where I didn't want sex with my man I'd consider it the end of our relationship.
Sex is a very important part of a relationship and if you don't fancy the pants off your partner then something is seriously wrong!
Me and my man can't get enough of each other and I hope that never changes!
2007-01-20 05:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Poppy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women who dont like sex shouldnt have men in there lives they may as well stick with women x sex is free and amazing should be done as often as possible xx x x unless there s a medical problem then its a whole new game xx
2007-01-20 05:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately- it doesn't have to just be full sex, other stuff is great fun! Especially when he returns the favours!
2007-01-20 09:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by jowigley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf would need to do something really good if I wasn't interested i sex, if he didn't please me enough for me to enjoy or want sex then why should I do him any favours?
2007-01-20 05:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by debs1701 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Im pregnant and sometimes the thought of sex repulses me but I still try and please my man. I will always make sure that he is sexually satisifed which makes him see that I really do love him and we have the perfect marriage.
2007-01-20 05:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by MrsMatsuyama 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I totally look after my man and I grant him whatever he wishes - but I am very lucky in that he does the same for me
2007-01-20 05:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋