Why do parents think sex ed and comdoms, even porn encourage their kid to have sex?

Question

Why do parents think the ONLY reason their kid would grow up and have sex is graphic cover everything sex ed , the media and availability of condoms?

Ie why think you kid will ONLY grow up if exposed to this?


Do parents genuinely think their kid wont start periods, grow brests, develop desire and sex drives for boys, or boys wont start masturbating, develop an interest in girls, start getting facial hair, and competitiive

Without sex ed, without nudity on TV, without contraceptives?


Why do they think other animals end up having sex?


Often see this . we must not encourage kids... or if we tell them about something they will want to do it argument

Well I heard some like getting peed over, or croc clips on nipples...

Does not make me want to do it... im like ewuuuu or Those clips come near me and your dead meat.

Likewise just as know what gays do does not make me want to be gay.


Yet to hear of gays turned straight by a copy of Playboy, Debbie Does Dallas

Not even a trip to a pole dance club would turn gays straight.


And I remeber getting sex ed lessons (crap as they were...) never made me pounce on the nearest girl.

Things like porn searched out like every teen boy.

(just like girls like pop stars)


What appear to be the case is that all that info shows people how to do it safely.

Should watching the movie

'The Blue Lagoon' about to kids who grew up on a desert island then the enevitable occured as they became teenagers be compulsory for parents?

Likewise dont you think if you dont teach poperly you kid will ask around and belive bullcrap like if the guy pulls out or you jump up and down you wont get pregnant?

Answer 1

Fear. Mostly fear of the loss of control. After raising and protecting their child for years, they are now extraneous. Sex is natural and it will happen regardless. They just don't recall what they were like at the same age.

Answer 2

It is better for a child to be educated about the consequences of sex and what not, but you know what I think the biggest thing that is influencing the children of today is how publicized things are now a days, with young girls getting pregnant ( watch a Maury show ) and I think that the fashion industry pushes that young girls should dress like little sluts and if they do that they will get the attention they want which isn't always good attention. Also I think if the parents aren't more involved in their childrens lives and don't educate them as well on the whole subject and didn't allow their teen-aged daughters to leave the house half naked then there wouldn't be a problem but until parents get more involved in raising their children then i think it is only going to get worse as time goes on.

Answer 3

It is like showing them sweets and just letting them take them. SEX IS ONLY FOR MARRIED ADULTS. Parents should only be the ones that teach kids about sex, Sex is all over the TV. A lot of show now are saying it is ok to have sex. Schools have no Right to teach Sex ED. And sex is all over the Magizne. Young Super stars are having kids, the Govment is saying to kids that it is alrigt to have kids, course they are giving them money.

But on the other hand, the only reson we have sex ed in school is couse some parents don't want to teach there kids. And then the parents let the kids buy the magizne and dvd's. only becouse they do not care.

i think that they hole thing has not control. that is why we have young mum's with babies.

they schools are trying to do the right things but it is not working.

i am going to teach myown kids myself about the birds and bees.

Answer 4

Unlike people, animals generally have a time where they are sexually aroused ( Heat) that is detected by the males in the species. And people on the other hand tend to have a visual and mental means of turning this on. And some people tend to navigate towards looking at pictures rather then foreplay, and that is why there is so many marriages on the rocks today. real sex , to be good is nothing like what is in the porn, And yet people don't seem to understand that.

Answer 5

I think some modesty is okay of which you have very little. It's not so much what they are exposed to as when it is appropriate, and that is a parent's job to decide, not yours. All the sexual milestones you mention have nothing to do with the porn. They will happen with or without knowledge of contraceptives. It's like you are obsessed with your ideas to the point where you justify showing porn to kids. It is a twisted rationale.

Answer 6

First of all, you should be the last person to be concerned with Sex Education when your grammar is so horrible. I would kindly suggest that you continue your education beyond the fifth grade before you tell parents how to raise their kids. Sex Ed is important to prevent problems such as Teen Pregnancy. If you were to be teaching my child I would pull them from a class fast as your ability to communicate is seriously questionable given your grammar.

Answer 7

I think what you probably MEANT to say was "Why do SOME parents think sex ed and comdoms, even porn encourage their kid to have sex? " There is no way you could possibly know every parent on this planet and you could not possibly know what they believe about sex education. Your generalizations only make you appear to be less intelligent than you probably are...which by this account isn't very anyway.

Answer 8

I am a parent of 4 children and dont feel that way at all my children and i disouse sex and the good and bad of it. i encourage condomes if they r going to do it as well as birth control, We r a open family and talk about everything, I feel that it is my job to inform them as well. Parents just want to protect there children, plus i sure dont want to raise any more kids than I had.

Answer 9

We don't all feel that way.

I have two grown children and it was just as much my responsibility to ensure that they new the facts about sex, sexuality, STDs and protection. I feal its important for them to know that they can speak to you about it in privacy if necessary and that it is natural and nothing to be ashamed of.

With that information they can then make informed choices. Maybe I'm a 'liberal' parent - but I would not go into fits if I found pornography in either my son or daughter's rooms. That may be because their room is 'theirs' and I respect their privacy.

Answer 10

because most parents today did not get the proper education that is open for people today. Most of them are old fashion and don't know how to talk with their kids about and think the best solution is to avoid it.

My parents were like that, then I started exploring and researching on my own time.