My firend is 29. She is dating a man that is 44. He is a really nice man. He drives trucks and has no children, but he has quite a bit of money. She care for him and the money in her opinon is just a bonus. Her family likes him but does not approve of the realationship. His family loves her and are happy that he found someone that makes him happy. She asked me if she should contiune with the realationship. I think she should but with the age difference and money being involved and the stares of other people is it wotrh it??
2007-01-20 04:50:11 · 9 answers · asked by anyaha04 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not have a problem with him. He makes her happy and she make him happy. They have had a few disagreements but it has not ecalated into something bad or serious. I think she is just getting tired of the stares and ppl asking if that is his daughter. Otherwise I can honestly say thay are happy!
2007-01-20 05:05:05 · update #1
What's nice about dating an older man is the man is done game playing and actually looking for a deeper relationship. A serious relationship. One that has a future and long term kinda thinking. Is SHE happy? Is she feeling stressed about the age differnece?
Have she mentioned any or a lot of negative things happening within the relationship?
If not, then back off and let her make her own choices. People have this way of not listening to others in this love choice. If you or her family and other friends see a problem, then yes, he may not be the man for her. but treying to get her to realize that is going to be harder to convince of. If he is a ohysically abusive man then there might want to be an invervention of some sort.
But iif not, then let them be and she will either stay with him for the long haul or let him go when she is ready.
p.s. older men also know how to work the female body like an instrument and with tenderness.
2007-01-20 04:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by rennes89 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for her! I'm still trying to come to terms with the fact that I myself am interested in an older man. It's my first time feeling that way for one, to be honest. It's tough because many people still have the belief that that kind of relationship is "never realistic." But sometimes, it's not all about the money or that a young girl has daddy issues. I don have daddy issues. My crush has told me he is financially struggling at the moment. Does that change the way I feel about him? Absolutely not! Love can happen towards anyone, no matter the age, size, sex, or race.
2014-04-28 20:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren Bakke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she should do what she thinks and not worry about what everyone else thinks. They are both adults and it is up to her not anyone else. Unless he looks really old for 44 I doubt- that people are staring- she is almost 30 this isnt that big of an age difference.Tell her as long as her is a good man and treats her right to stay with him. By the way older men are better-They actually get it....
2007-01-20 13:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is not a problem, just think how small the diff will seem in 30 years
money is always good but should not be the base for a relationship unless she is a hoe.
she should continue and enjoy life with this man.
2007-01-20 12:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should follow her heart as age does not affect being loved and sharing love with someone who is respectful, honest, trustworthy and devoted only comes once in a lifetime.
No one cares about the age difference. In so far as the money goes, who actually knows the truth apart from him? It becomes another non-issue.
2007-01-20 12:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by D N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i are 12 years apart.tell her not to let an age difference keep her from being happy
2007-01-20 12:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
again who CARESSSS what other people thinks, as long as they make each other happy plus age is jus a number!!!!!!!! i say they go forit screw what other people think
2007-01-20 12:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by kelis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the end,it is wat makes you happy that matters, people will stare any way you go about it, so tell your that it her feeling that trully matters along with that of her man.And for the family once they realize how happy he is making her they will acccept him
2007-01-20 12:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by Carolyn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR FRIEND WANTS NO MONEY PROBLEMS. SHE WANTS TO HAVE IT MADE. BELIEVE ME SHE WILL HAVE HER CAKE AND EAT IT TO. IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN.
2007-01-20 12:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by redboldone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋