Why is it That Getting A Girls Phone Number & calling hardly ever works out?

Question

Why does it never work out when you go out and get a number and call, yet eveyone including girls say they like a "confident" guy who approaches them?

Its almost like they like guys to approach so they can get some free attention but they dont have that same confidence themselves to call or return a call.

Whats the point then?

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Answer 1

It's the same mystery girls have when guys ask for their number then never call. Some people (women included) are jerks. You don't want to waste your time on girls like that anyway. They don't know what they want.

Keep doing what you're doing. The right girl (or rather the smart one) will be glad you did.

Answer 2

They like the validation and attention. Sometimes they already have bf's but they still like the attention. Don't read into it too much just keep what u r doing but try getting more than 1 number aim at least at 5 so u have more options.

Answer 3

It's just a game and a score when you get the number. Step two is calling. Step 3 is going on a date.

Answer 4

Yeah, it happens, but guys are just as confusing as girls... once a guy gets a gf, he only thinks about sports, and other girls. It really sux to be us sometimes, but anyways, if you like a girl that much, ask her out already!

Answer 5

I call, or answer my phone....I have relationships that have worked out from a start like that

Answer 6

im a girl and i know- you're supposed to go and ask. . . if you lke someone you shouldn't be shy around them. . and girls have their own reasons

Answer 7

BEachwood 4-5789, you call me up for a date, any ol' time!

Answer 8

usually, they just want one thing.

Answer 9

i call bck