he broke my heart not that long ago
but yesterday for PE he said to someone he still liked me
and i kinda like him
but i want revenge.
i want to make him like me again..so much that he will ask me back out and i can say no. i want to make him feel like i did
so how can i make him like me ALOT again
then drop the BOOM on him???
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positive answers please
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2007-01-20 04:32:47 · 14 answers · asked by Itsallaboutmehunni 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"The best revenge is living well."
The key to attracting him to you, is to not try to intentionally do it. Believe it or not, guys are more attracted to girls that ignore them. We feel like we've accomplished more than the average guy if we can manage to gain your attention. Guys like to chase a little bit; if it's too simple then we just consider you an "easy girl." But that's where your plan comes in. You're never OBLIGATED to give him your attention. And if anyone tries to tell you that you're leading him on...you can honestly tell them that it's your free choice to avoid making contact with him.
Another helpful tool is to just find another partner altogether. Jealousy may not be a problem with your ex-boyfriend, but if it is, then you've got a lock on it. Finding someone more caring and sweet than your previous boyfriend will not only give you a stronger emotional foundation; it will make him realize what he needs to improve on. And seeing you with another guy will make him envious because he will remember all the times where HE was the guy you used to spend your time with.
I've never been a strong believer in revenge, but I almost always do it inadvertently because I just move on with my life and realize that my ex-girlfriend is in the past, and if I want my life to move forward, that's where she needs to stay, so far as my personal life is concerned. Hope that helps.
2007-01-20 04:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something you are not seeing here is the fact that he already likes you. He must have broken up for a reason that really has nothing to do with you. For example: perhaps he has some issues about himself that he is trying to resolve. If he broke your heart, it is not in your best interest to make any effort to do anything where he is concerned. I say ignore the heck out of him and that will be revenge enough.
2007-01-20 04:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Linda's Gift Shop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wasting your time, and I understand what you feel, but boys, in general do not get that deep, definitely not at this age, so even if he still likes you, he will not be that devastated by anything that you do. Instead of trying to hurt the guy, you will get hurt again yourself, for no good reason.
I suggest for you to get over him, not to take him back, focus on school, your education, your family and friends, your health, and your hobbies. The best revenge is being happy, and it happens if you are true to yourself and not try to intentionally hurt someone else. Forget about him and move on.
2007-01-20 04:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your need for revenge. Here's the deal: It would feel good for a few minutes if you got the revenge, then it would feel REALLY bad for a long time.
Maybe you could say to him, let's go out for coffee (or whatever you do) and have a little chat about how badly you hurt me and stomped all over my feelings!! :) Clear the air, find out why he did it it, etc. If he is willing to come clean and show that he will never do it again, then consider getting back with him for real.
If he is not willing to deal with that past situation, then he's not ready to start again with you.
Good luck!!!!
2007-01-20 04:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing that your a child !
Any logical advice is wasted.
But you might try just being friends.
and then again that revenge thing > > you are too young to make an adult friendship that requires patience and understanding.
It 'positively' sounds to me like your so vindictive now, your going to be a fine example of the typical bltch in your relationships.
Truth can hurt it's not an insult
Advice!
2007-01-20 04:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but if you're into the revenge thing, I'm not going to help you. It sounds like he may have realized he made a mistake and he is thinking it through again and you just don't kill someone who is generally sorry for what they've done.
You're on your own girl.
2007-01-20 04:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO you really want to tell him no? If so then do what you did to get him in the first place. And then when he says do you want to try it again then.....DROP IT LIKE ITS HOT. But beware he may like you and he may not want to be with you but want a no strings attach thing so just be careful of that. Good luck.
2007-01-20 04:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games. He was honest with you and dumped you. What would you want, him to stay with you when he didn't love you? He was true to his feelings. Get him back by moving on and being happy with your own life without him, not by playing childish games trying to hurt him.
2007-01-20 04:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by Interested 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, this isn't really a positve question and it sounds like some one's been watching 'John Tucker must die' too many times.
2007-01-20 04:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by boombabybob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being nice but not to nice to him, and just play arround with him , and when he ask you out tell him you only like him as a friend, that should crush him
2007-01-20 04:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by chuck s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋