I just broke up with the hottest chic I've ever met and I need to forget about it because it's messing me up in the head, and I can't get anything done, but she was just so hot, and she was my first love, that I can't... I thought about looking for someone else but my standards are so high and I just don't have the time. Any advice?
2007-01-20 04:20:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-20 04:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by KakMaschiGaaNaruSask Guy Sensia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't force yourself to get over her, let it happen naturally. It will suck really bad but eventually you will notice that you feel better than you have for a long time. There is no cure, you can't purge her from your system. Don't try anything radical because you you will only end up disappointed when you are back at square one.
I suggest keeping busy and surrounding yourself with the things and people that make you, you. Avoid things that were "yours and hers". Watch all your favorite movies, listen to all your favorite music, video games, books, foods, sports. Hang out with your buddies, go on a trip if you can swing it. You need to remind yourself that you are an awesome person (you attracted her, didn't you?) and even though you and she didn't work out, doesn't mean that you will never meet another. You will meet many, just give it time.
2007-01-20 04:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have the time, or is it that you are so hurt, you don't have the desire right now? Take some time to heal, refocus on what you want in life besides her, and get on with it. Education, social events (even if your heart is breaking right now) and activities to ease your mind. She may have been a hot chick, etc. but there will be others. First things first...Heal! This is a loss to you, and you must treat it as such, just as if you had lost anything else of value to you. Good luck. I met my favorite person, now my husband at age 52, married him at 59 and still going strong. That was after two hurtful relationships, which did a lot of damage. My revenge was to get my education, be successful in my career field, and have both gentlemen say in later years "I made a mistake in leaving you." Too late, I had refocused on me, not them. Good luck. Now , on to making that list of what is the most important thing in your life to do...for YOU, not any one else. Success!!
2007-01-20 04:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you are ready for the dating scene then best thing to do is focus on everything that you do everyday like work, and activities, maybe exercising is that is what you do, She might have been important to you but you want to move on. when you are ready then there will be someone out there for you. although some people are high maintenance people manage to work out romance and everyday living at the same time, it is just whatever you feel you have to.
2007-01-20 04:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lower your standards and go out there and try to find a girl that is beautiful,spontanious,energetic,and loves/likes you for who you are.
try doing more things with your friends,family,and find stuff to keep your mind off of her. it will be hard to forget about her but try your best because you can't be caught up in one girl for the rest of your life. you need to move on and have a happy life.
good luck!!
XOXOXO
2007-01-20 04:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get neutered, problem solved
2007-01-20 04:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by magpie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋