2007-01-20 04:20:35 · 18 answers · asked by bahamian.beauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Assuming you've asked this question for yourself, my advise to you would be as long as you don't keep any emotional expectations from this guy and can live with only the physical chemistry, you would really enjoy this no-strings attached relationship(if you intend to call it one!!) and that's OK.
Believe me, been in one while I already have a long-distance steady serious relationship..Sometimes ppl get to do things to be happy and not to emotionally drain themself, coz life is too short and moral ethics too restrictive to define the thresholds of happiness.
But then as i said earlier, it's my advice follow it or not is your decision based on how you guys decide to keep this thing between you always between yourself and never hurt the third person in any way(not even by confession, coz that's worse)....
2007-01-20 04:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not ok AT ALL! Why bother, eventually you'll want him to once your emotions get too attached. Also, what's wrong with you? Can't find your own man? Gotta go for one that's already taken? Have some respect for his wife, and let alone - yourself! You're playing with fire and you don't even realize it. Messing with a married man shuts off your opportunity to meet the man that will be yours only and treat you like a queen. I don't care what type of situation this married man you are seeing is saying he has with his wife, simply put - it is none of your business and you'll never know the complete truth. You have no rights as a mistress, emotionally you may think you do, but you absolutely don't. And who's to say this man isn't messing around with other women putting you, his wife and any other women at risk. It's a reality, girl. Wake up and move on to your own prince charming. You're wasting your precious time whether he leaves his wife or not. One thing you are failing to realize is, he doesn't have much respect for you. He thinks your self-esteem is low and you can't find anyone else, that's why you'll mess with him even though he is married. Answer this, does his wife know about you? Is she ok with you messing with her husband? If not, you better watch your back.
2007-01-20 12:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it ain't against the law, but a little morally messed up! It seems you are just looking for some fun which may be great on your end, but think about how the wife feels.
What if you were married and your husband was cheating on you?!?! How would that feel?
2007-01-20 12:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Megan S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, would you want someone else having sex/giving pleasures to the man you suppose to be with for the rest of your life? Its so disrespectful & woman who do these kind of things give other woman a bad name. So the answer to your question is: NO, it is NOT ok to date a married man..........& its more like if his wife finds out she would be leaving him & you would be the home wrecker. Please take this serious.
2007-01-20 12:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by nealejess401 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not okay!!!!!!!! He is married and according to the word of GOD he's not to be with another woman, it's called committing ADULTERY! You would also be committing ADULTERY because you are having sex with a man that is not your husband!
Get some JESUS in your heart and you wouldn't even consider it!
2007-01-20 12:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! If he is married it's hands off. How would you feel if you were in his wifes position?
2007-01-20 12:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by Ring-a-ding-ding 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not because he will most likely LEAVE his wife...
2007-01-20 12:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by Fallen Pixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he was your husband would you mind if he dated someone else - even if he wasn't going to leave you? Does his wife mind?
2007-01-20 12:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by jezzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not very smart. Why would you ask a question like that?? Trying to get people upset at you??
2007-01-20 12:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no no no he is using you and think of how you would feel if it happened to you .. he is a man of no morales and i certainally would not get close to a jerk like that
2007-01-20 12:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by sammie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋