i moved to the USA last year i met thr girl of my dreams she was beutiful, funny, smart, i loved everything about her, she moved in with me and we had the best 1 and a half ever we spent every bit of time we had together. i had to go back home to englnad i had a death in the family, she said she didnt wana do long distance, so we broke up we still speak by email, but ive seen loads of pics and messages from guys on her myspace she swears they are just friends and that she will always love me but cant do long distance, i dont know if i believe her can they be just friends? i have a chance to go back to the USA in 3 weeks im not sure if i should go back for her and be with her im scared it wont work and i wil be all alone in a different country or should i trust her that she hasnt done anything with these guys?? and move back there?
2007-01-20 04:04:46 · 12 answers · asked by Bobby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's cheating on ya dude! dont cry over spilled milk though. there ARE more girls like that out there for you. if you get hung up on this girl your just gonna be misrable. you gotta move on and keep trying.
2007-01-20 04:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by fortyounce95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman weren't being with or considering being with other men, she would be fine with a long distance relationship. Either way, she didn't want to continue to be with you while you were away so that she would be free to do other things, don't be fooled. Especially if she ended things with you in your time of need, she really and truly is not committed in the long run. Does she want you to go back to the US and be with her? Whether she does or not, remember that she ended things with you for a reason the first time, and keep that in mind when you decide if youll go back to the US. There are plenty of lovely, beaufitufl, funny, and smart women out there who 1- wouldn't selfishly separate from you when you're having a family crisis, and 2- who wouldn't break up with you while you are away in order to leave the woman's options open. That's not love. Don't move/travel just for her, move on with your life. If you two are meant to get back together, it will happen.
2007-01-20 04:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by lea c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest, some women do flirt alot, take me for example i flirt all the time and like her i get loads of messages from guys.
And i am engaged, lol.
But hun you need to trust her to be able to have a lasting relationship, and it seems as though you don't trust her. Maybe i am wrong!
However i must say, if you love her and she truly loves you then, you can take a chance and go back, maybe if you don't, you'll never know what you refused or what could have been.
If you don't trust her and your family is here, i would advise you not to leave, just stay here and move on with your life. You got your family and friends here to help you through your time of pain.
By the way sorry for the lost of one of your family member.
Take care and good luck.
2007-01-20 05:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by Playful~Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that you can trust her, then you should belive that she is telling the truth, however if you have your doubts, you should call her and tell her that your going to the USA and that if she would like to get back together you should meet up in a place however if not move on, it might be hard but it will be worthwhile in the long run..hope i have helped :D
2007-01-20 04:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um..no..u know long distance relationship is what I like..anyway..I must admit u both really had a bonded relationship..and now u can't make your mind to lose trust now in this woman..seeing is to believe..and believe in your heart.So therefore she told u this is her friends..accept it and be a man and get back to USA....and if u don't like any misunderstanding..make her know that u had all your trust in her..and then move on...Sometimes people need to understand that things don't go way they always want or planned..chow..hope that helps..
2007-01-20 04:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by Annabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that they are just friends and she does still love you. Some females can't handle not being able to see their men but you need to talk to her about this and find out if she still wants to go back out if you come back to the country before you do.
2007-01-20 04:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by some potential so a procedures, i've got in no way had my heart broken, i've got constantly carried out the heart breaking...that's such as you reported now and lower back worse for me reason I even tend to experience mega in charge and stuff....my final boyfriend thoroughly fell aside as quickly as I broke up with him, he did no longer wanna enable me pass, so as that grow to be annoying to handle.... :)
2016-10-07 11:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to say how she will react. visit her and talk. if she is unwilling to do long distance, wish her well, move on, and take care of your broken heart. (find things to do that are interesting, get you out of the house, get you with other people, be with people who make you feel better)
2007-01-20 04:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by snickersmommie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to figured out what makes things goes wrong for both of u..
2007-01-20 04:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is life ! decisions decisions
Your lucky you can travel like that.
I wish I could I could move to Florida.
2007-01-20 04:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋