I met this guy two days ago and he has been calling me all day everyday. He has been watching me at work and waited till no one was around to approach me. He told me he wants a serious relationship and he keeps asking can we go ahead and be together because he is ready to be loved. Sounds like to me he just want some or are there really guys out there that are just looking for love and are real what should i do?
2007-01-20 03:25:20 · 20 answers · asked by omarionsgirl1983 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i did slow him down thats before he sent me flowers at work sounds like to me he has some different type of game ive never experienced
2007-01-20 03:31:08 · update #1
baby girl, hmmm speed love? this guy seems to be clingy already. it can be annoying. it's okay to date him and get to know him better. he's just fast and furious. fall in love fast and fall out of love even faster. so, if you're serious about him, just take it slow.
2007-01-20 03:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it is in my opinon when you meet somebody as you have done, it has the appearence that you are quite anxious to jump into a close relationship without first checking out the other person first. You should make sure that you chose a partner that has other substance not strictly on looks, never give a stranger your phone number, you get his! never tell a stranger where you work the first time you meet! Oh! did I say never attempt to develop a intimate relationship with 1) A stalker 2)Someone you work with (co-worker). 3) A neighbor. 4) Your girl friend brother, cousin and other relatives etc.. 5) A man that speaks about "LOVE" being "LOVED" before getting to know you on your own terms does not want a serious relationship that means the same as it does to you. It sounds as though he is very impatient and needing to put another notch in his belt like Jesse James did doing the years of the cowboys. A man calling you all day should be "a red flag" to you! What man calls a lady all day? Except one that has a "no none-sense hard penis" and is looking for some place to put it. The name of the game my lady, for most men like you have described here, only wants to "GET IN THE PANTIES AT ALL COST FIRST" then, He will see if he can have a serious relationship later, maybe! This is not how to develop a healthy relationship. This is how to have unprotected sex that yeilds HIV/AIDS or BABIES at the least. Not a serious relationship as you are looking for!
SUNNEEBOYY
2007-01-20 13:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two days is toooooo fast. It could be that he is unsure and inexperienced, and thinks that he is just going to dazzle you and make you fall for him...or he could be a dangerous and controlling individual.
I had a friend who met a man and she agreed to go for coffee with him after they had met and talked several times. Then she agreed to meet him for lunch, and then she went out to dinner with him about two weeks later.
During the dinner he was professing his love and adoration for her and talking marriage before she had even finished her meal. Needless to say she got away from this person quite rapidly.....too needy.... By this time, they had spent less than three hours together...yikes!!
This guy may be just wanting a sexual fling, and thinks that if he says he is looking for love you will agree to just about anything. Be very careful and I am glad that you added that you have put the brakes on the situation. Good luck and have a good day.
2007-01-20 11:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His approach is a bit over the top. Or maybe he's just awkward and not very good at expressing himself. I would tread carefully, but give the guy a hearing at least. One date can't hurt can it ? Some guys actually are quite shy and then when they finally do make an approach, sort of over do it a bit. Take it slowly but give him a go is my advice. Good Luck !
2007-01-20 11:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by Lilliana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first aren't you a little upset that you've just met him and he keeps calling,and he wants a serious relationship......
He doesn't even know you and i think you should think about that
There are guys that are looking for love but I thakes time for love and this guy is a bit strange.....If you relly liked the guy you would be asking this question...There are guy that are looking for love like you but It dosen't have to be the first guy that aproches you with that question have faith in yourself..and he will come
2007-01-20 11:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds desperate and needy and you need to run in the other direction as fast as you can. It would scare me to think what this guy would be like if you went out with him and it didn't work out. He is not allowing things to progress naturally and he's putting alot of expectations on you before you even get out of the gate. Tread lightly my friend and good luck.
2007-01-20 11:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by noddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u. id take it slow. and see if he really loves you. it might be love at first sight. or hes just trying to get a piece of you. going slow is the best idea. and if he calls dont pick up until the second call n say u were busy doing something and couldnt get to the phone quick enough. play a little hard to get. if its to easy for him. he'll brake your heart faster if you do decide to go out with him
2007-01-20 11:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by LEAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give him an opportunity and you try get to know him better. If you feel you are comfortable,then I dont see any reason why you cant have a good serious relationship.
2007-01-20 11:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you hav said you just met for 2 days...
i guess that is a very short time to get to know each other...
i advice you to spend more time in knowing him but a relationship is not a good decision....
we'' if you love him you may give it a try but it seems that you dont.. you haven't mention about it...
2007-01-20 11:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by precious_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has issues. You should be very leary of anyone who pushes themself on you like that. I would run like hell and look for another guy. Yes, some guys are looking for love but this guy doesn't sound right!
2007-01-20 11:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by BooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋