I am only 14 and I know it is too early for me to think if i found a right man for the rest of my life but i am just wondering cuz so far with the boys i been with they all tell me they love me foreva and until they die and i fall for it (because i am gullabul and i can not help it) but afta couple of weeks they end up leaving me. I do not know what to and i dont trust any boy right now. Havent been in a relationship for 4 months and i am so desperate for one tho i am afraid to get hurt again. Please help me i really want to know how to find a boy of my dreams :(
2007-01-20 03:01:41 · 17 answers · asked by Dariachu 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not likely to find him any time soon. Which is probably a good thing because now likely the right time. Give it time and you will eventually know. In the mean time (next few years or so) have a little patience.
2007-01-27 20:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys say that, some mean it for a little while and then they change their minds and the others they just say it b/c they think that is what being b/f and g/f is about. Yes when guys say that and then dump you it really hurts. So when I guy tells you this don't fall for it. When you find the guy of your dreams you will know it. I am only 13 and I still haven't found him. But for the desperate part plz don't be like that. i have a friend and all the guys know how she is and when she breaks up with her b/f she has to find a new b/f right then. But plz don't be like her. When guys know you are desperate than they won't fall for you b/c they know that you are using them just to have a b/f. Good Luck
2007-01-20 11:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Kt*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 14. The first relationship that you need to master is the one you have with yourself.
Almost no one marries at 14, and very few people marry by 18. The early relationships that are forced into commitments also rarely if ever work.
Become comfortable with yourself. Feel comfortable being alone. Once you are content with yourself, you can find a man who will respect you and not take advantage of you.
2007-01-28 09:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by mrstockwatcherguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't have the "boy of your dreams" at age 14. It's that simple. It won't happen. It takes a while. A lot longer than 14 years. You're just learning, we all are, and you just have to live and keep learning. Yes, it might either take a month, or 10 more years, but you'll find the perfect guy for you. And maybe he'll find you first!
2007-01-27 21:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by babyi'melectricc. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your really young right now. I wasn't even allowed to date till 16. If I were you I would just give up boys for awhile. Concentrate on school and your studies. Enjoy the company of your girlfriends.
You will have plenty of time for boys in your life. And the most important thing is. Even when your older, don't be looking for a boy-friend. Look for a man, someone who means what they say. Someone who really wants to be with you, and yes, you will know. Someone who says one thing and does another is not being honest. I'm sure you will find the MAN of your dreams all in good time. Don't worry about it.
Good luck! *hugs*
2007-01-20 11:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on your only 14!
you have plenty of time to find the right one for you!
I suggest you stick to what you really need,academics
Thats right , study and take of your grades and have fun!
Go out with your friends and do 14 year old stuff,shop,mall
whatever,you dont have to have a boyfriend,besides girls mature emotionally quicker then boys of the same age.
Meaning the boys dont have a clue as to what they want at 14,so dont worry about it!
2007-01-28 10:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by kyle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear you are only 14 take your time. Enjoy your life first. Sometimes we have to kiss a lot of frogs before mr right comes along.. Go with friend do fun things when the one comes along I am sure you both will know.Dont tie yourself down so young.Youwill meet him one day,but do not be in a rush.
2007-01-26 11:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by canteloupesweet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need a relationship with a boy. Don't you have friends you can hang out with. A person who is desperate is very unappealing to others. If you become secure with yourself and are a strong, independent girl that sends out vibes of self confidence and boys will be fighting to get close to you.
2007-01-20 11:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by noddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you desperate for a bf? Then you are not really ready for one. I didn't have a bf when i was 14, and i was happy! Nothing better than being single when your a teenager. You get to spend more time doing your hobbies, or activies and then things you love! No Drama, how wonderful!!!
2007-01-20 11:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by Em C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The pain you feel is but an itch and a scratch, no more. Life will bring you unimaginable pains with men and friendships that this little trist cannot touch. And, you will grow and learn... this is but one small lesson, enjoy it now for it is preparing you for life. By the way... put your hormones to rest, my God, you're but a child!
Also, please understand that a desperate girl will scare away quality guys but will attract slugs and those knowing that it is in this seed of desperation that they get their action (free sex!!!!!). How do I know, I was one of those guys!
2007-01-20 11:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by Wisdom??? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋