i found my boyfriend was messaging a few girls on myspace and another similar site, i dont know if they chat in IM too. He is flirting with them and i never much thought anything about it until now but he also has it posted on both sites that he is single..
What do i do?
2007-01-20 02:58:08 · 8 answers · asked by attila 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so ask him and tell him you know, do it calmly and with tact
2007-01-20 03:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to ask why he is claiming that he is single! Also why he is flirting with other girls, to be honest this is not a very good sign.If he is flirting now the next step could be actual meeting these girls. I have been in the same situation before with my ex husband doing the same thing. Trust me you do not want to be a victim of being cheated on. Confront him and then do what you feel is best for and your heart. Be strong!
2007-01-20 11:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by theresa_whitley_28 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to confront him about this, do so. You have to discuss it rationally, which can be difficult.
Unfortunately, most people who are pretending to be single, really want to be single. I do not like to sound uncaring or blunt, but that is the most truthful answer.
Single people are not in a monogamous relationship with another person. they are "playing the field," or possibly want to be doing so. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-20 11:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he might be fishing around. I would be mad. I think you need to have a talk with him about your relationship. Let him know what you saw and ask him what the deal is. If hes looking to see other people or what. Then take it from there. Good Luck!
2007-01-20 11:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i made a nice complete answer to your other question then saw it had been removed.
if it's a problem for you and makes you worry then it is not what you need.
it is akin to looking over your shoulder to see who comes in the door next.
your physical health is at stake here too. not just mental.
everybody has their habits.
find someone who's habits won't hurt you.
step out from in front of that bus! it will run over you.
2007-01-20 11:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by imustbblonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him from being a liar and make him single.
2007-01-20 11:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by noddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it...
2007-01-20 11:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by steve 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just quit him....
2007-01-20 11:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by tod 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋