This question goes out to all the people that are trying to get over someone. Everyone always has these great suggestions on how to get over someone, but all those things seem to take place during the day time. My question is how do you get through the lonely nights?
2007-01-20 02:42:58 · 11 answers · asked by xxdelicious_l1psxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, I know exactly where you are coming from! When its night, and I'm alone... all those memories come back, and its hard trying to let go of what was once special to you. But day-by-day, I told myself, "I can't let this bring me down"... you have to want to let him go. But most of the time, feelings get in the way... of the right thing we need to do! Just pray on it... and things WILL change! Good Luck
2007-01-20 02:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got over my ex-husband by consentrating on why I left to begin with....day and night. The nights are the hardest because that's when the day is done and your mind seems to wonder. When you think you're ready, find someone else to share your nights with, until then, do whatever it takes to put his memory out of yours. I wish you luck, but everyone has a different way of filling the void that is left and in time he will become someone you once knew.
2007-01-20 02:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by whatever2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The nights are the hardest specially if you lived with this person before the break-up. But dealing with your feelings are the best way to get over them. At night, just think of the GOOD times and NOT the negs of the break-up, the negs it will make it worse. Your night will be more pleasant with better dreams if you just focus on the GOOD! Hope this works....It did for me Good Luck! to anyone out there trying to get over a break-up!
2007-01-20 02:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by juscallmesweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what im in the same situation in the day its great i could keep myself busy right but at night thats the killer well the only thing i think of right now is it takes time to get over a situation just make sure u are surounded with people friends family make new friends go to the gym read books at night just keep busy and in time it will get easier to be alone at night good luck maybe u could start dating
2007-01-20 02:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep, hang out with your friends, watch movies, eat comfort food. Anything it takes. There are a million things to do at night. go bowling, roller skating. etc.
Think about what you did before you met that person and were single.
Do that.
2007-01-20 02:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by coochie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no getting over the lonely nights, when that happend to me i would usally drink until i passed out but other than that nope. sorry
2007-01-20 02:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by daniel a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read a book, watch funny movies with friends, go to the movies, take a walk outside...
2007-01-20 02:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kristi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry get it out and then try to let it go more each night i know it is hard and easier said then done but you have to do it to move on so i wish you luck and may you find true happiness someday
2007-01-20 02:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to just go to bed earlier. . I'd just do what I had to for the day then go to sleep. I wouldn't leave myself anytime to miss him. It was still hard, but keeping busy actually really helped.
2007-01-20 03:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch tv or series or cartoons ( watver u like the most ), get a friend to sleep over, try traveling ..
2007-01-20 03:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by thesinmon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋