well, i have a lovely bf, i love him more than anything in my life. the only problem is, he smokes weed alot! it was ok at first, but recently he started to shiver and his heart beat was too fast and he turned pale. he sometimes even falls down and can't keep balance! i talked to him to cut down on weed, but he won't listen,, so i want to know what i should atleast do when he becomes like that. i have tried massaging his head and neck and i gave him something sweet to eat,, don't know if that works.
PLZ HELP!
i don't want him to die or suffer.... what can i do?
2007-01-20 02:37:26 · 56 answers · asked by christina c 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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His use is now problematic not recreational
He needs help and Im guessing you are a teenager so this is too much for you to deal with... To help him you risk loosing him..
The sympotoms you describe indicate there may be something else in his weed or his reaction is not normal
Much as you may like to think you are all grown up , especailly as having sex probably it does not mean you are fully grown up and able to deal with stuff like this... these are grown up problems to deal with...
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2007-01-20 02:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is his own person and should be able to do as he likes. It is unusual that weed would produce this result. I suggest you turn the heat up and get him a sweater. He may want to get his dope from a new dealer or grow it himself because it sounds as though it is laced with something. Take a trip to Vancouver and get some good icky sticky. May be that he enjoys the neck rubs and sweets so much that his body is producing these results to produce those...don't reward bad behavior. Remember you are striving for calm submissive.
2007-01-20 02:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jim B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a serious issue. You need to either seek professional help for him against his will, or leave him a l o n e. He may have some form of disease, or growing medical problem causing his bodily chemistry to go haywire when mixed with the drugs. If he overdoses, and dies, or dies as a result of the drug abuse, you can be declared as a liable accessory to his death. You were there, knew the situation and aided in the problem persisting by not seeking help. Its called negligence, and can subject you to being prosecuted: either in judicial or in a civil suit. You need to protect yourself and him as well by reporting it, or getting out while you can. He's only gonna get worse at this point.
2007-01-20 02:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by diggamann 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is suffering from some sort of lack of oxygen perhaps his lungs are too sensitive for him to smoke weed. He also may have some heart problems but most peoples heart rate does go up when high. IF HE IS SUFFERING THEN HE SHOULD QUIT!!!If he wont then he will suffer and probably make you suffer with him. Its self inflicted pain- he quits the pain quits -how hard is it? But you cant do that for him HE MUST DO IT HIMSELF.
2007-01-20 02:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not going to like this but Get Out before it is too late, if he won't or is unwilling to give up "the weed" even when you ask him due to the effect it is having on his health, and he just ignores you then what chance have you got in future arguments/discussions on the more serious things in life?
2007-01-20 02:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by BobC 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing much u can do. You tried to talk to him and that didnt work if he does not want to help himself get better there is nothing u can do he needs to realize on his own time that he has a problem and its effecting his health and he also needs to come to realization that he needs help. He is lucky to have such a loving and caring girlfriend continue on being a loving and caring girlfriend and support him help him get bettter. I think u should sit him down and talk to him about either quiting cutting down or getting drug rehab its not an easy thing to talk about but it should be mentioned its for his own good right ok good luck
2007-01-20 02:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wont die. Its called a "Whitey" (cause you turn white) Too much dope!!!
The high heart rate is caused as blood pressure drops when one smokes weed. The heart speeds up to compensate. It wont kill him. Best bet is to stop smoking for a couple of days and to then smoke less. The feeling is better if you don't do too much.
Sweet things and orange juice works.
xxB
2007-01-20 02:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It must be something other than weed! I don't do it but am familiar. He is on another drug if he is having that reaction or he has the flu! If it's happening frequently it is not the flu! Don't be blind now! You should be concerned about several things, his safety (but you can't control it no matter how hard you try), he is lying to you(if he lies about this he will lie about anything) and you could get busted right along with him! Even if you are not doing it if you are just with him & the law gets him you will go to jail too!!!! If he has it in your car, your house, walking down the street whatever you will be implicated and your property impounded even if it is your parents. See this affects a lot of people not just him!
2007-01-20 02:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
yea its not just weed hes rollin up .... its probably laced with something. drug dealers add al kinds of fun stuff to their product to make it stronger or to add effect... sometimes to cause addiction ( this includes rat poison, enbalming fluid, cocaine, pcp angeldust, prescription pills (crush em up) ive even heard of raid roach killing spray being used... so you return to the same dealer for more if you are addicted.. tell him to get his weed from somone more trustworthy. he needs to do his homework if hes gonna do an illegal drug you cant just smoke anything they tell you. good bud wont make you shiver or make you fall. if thats not something he is capable of then he has no option but to stop smoking weed..maybe he has a bad reaction to weed even if it is good bud.. (its possible) you unfortunately are in a bad position because you will end up risking face depending on how smart/ nice of a guy he is. he might not take your advice especially if it comes to quitting... anyways good luck and just so you know your one of the good ones! if he dosent appreciate you and do this for you theres the majority of guys out there who will.
2007-01-20 03:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by ViC! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop smoking the stuff!
Ignor the arseh*les who are calling him a junkie, they are ignorant and have probably never even tried the stuff. Sounds like he is smoking too much of it. Try and make him cut down, I have got to say though, it does sound like he may be taking cocaine too. I used to smoke weed and snort coke, and I had similar symptoms. It really doesnt do you any good while your on the stuff. He will probably be ok, if he stops now, if he doesnt he is at risk of getting a heart attack.
2007-01-20 02:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋