well, i have a lovely bf, i love him more than anything in my life. the only problem is, he smokes weed alot! it was ok at first, but recently he started to shiver and his heart beat was too fast and he turned pale. he sometimes even falls down and can't keep balance! i talked to him to cut down on weed, but he won't listen,, so i want to know what i should atleast do when he becomes like that. i have tried massaging his head and neck and i gave him something sweet to eat,, don't know if that works.
PLZ HELP!
i don't want him to die or suffer.... what can i do?
2007-01-20 02:36:34 · 21 answers · asked by christina c 5 in Health ➔ Other - Health
maybe he should stop smoking weed, and then see a doctor.
2007-01-20 02:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ioana M 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
what you can do is not support his weed, it's all very well saying you love him and want to help but what usually happens is the clean one gets dragged down too. He has to choose, you or the weed, if the weed is more important then get out now, it'll save you more grief later. when I first met my husband he smoked the stuff regularly as well as drink too much. He couldnt believe his luck at how sympathetic i was till one day i said that's it, me or the weed. In fact i didnt even give him the luxury of deciding at leisure, i left. He came back clean and never touched the stuff again, became the opposite, was very anti-substance of any kind. That was the time I was proud of him but not before. Please think carefully about your own well-being, dont go forgetting it in your pursuit to make him happier and good luck.
2007-01-20 02:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is his own person and should be able to do as he likes. It is unusual that weed would produce this result. I suggest you turn the heat up and get him a sweater. He may want to get his dope from a new dealer or grow it himself because it sounds as though it is laced with something. Take a trip to Vancouver and get some good icky sticky. May be that he enjoys the neck rubs and sweets so much that his body is producing these results to produce those...don't reward bad behavior. Remember you are striving for calm submissive.
2016-03-29 06:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you find lots of literature about the effects of smoking weed (you will find lots on the web) and give it to him to read. Maybe this will make him realise the dangers of smoking it. Also explain you don't like him smoking weed and that if he is not willing to give up smoking weed then you have no choice but to move on! If he really values you as his girlfriend he will do all he can to kick the habit! If he chooses not to then it just proves he is not the man for you!! You shouldn't have to stick around watching him kill himself.
2007-01-20 03:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are describing a panic attack, a common side effect of cannabis use. Cannabis also increases heart beat and blood pressure. When the user stands up, the blood pressure drops sharply causing them to feel faint and often, fall over. If this does occur, he is at risk of head or spinal trauma so don't move him. Loosen his clothing, keep him warm and call and ambulance.
If he hasn't fallen, encourage him to lie down and elevate his legs to get the blood running back to the brain and major organs. Loosen, his clothing, keep him warm and observe him. If he hyperventilates, another symptom of a panic attack, give him a paper back to breathe into. When he comes around, give him something sweet to eat or drink to replace the energy he will have lost and plenty of water.
Needless to say, drug abuse is not a good thing. Chronic cannabis use can leave him forgetful, paranoid and aggressive. Users also have high risk of developing respiratory problems and cancers. He needs to quit and if he is not willing to do that for himself and for you, you should consider leaving him. He could hurt you some day. There are help groups for friends and families of drug users you could talk to for support. Check your local telephone directory.
Good luck, honey.
2007-01-20 03:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by queenbee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He NEEDS to reduce the amount of weed he smokes and preferably give it up altogether. This could be a slow process, but clearly he needs help. Support him in this but if he won't listen, find another boyfriend until this one gets to grips with his health.
2007-01-20 02:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by Rozzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to smoke weed,there's not much you can do to stop him,his choice.He obviously chooses weed over you so if I were you I'd think very carefully where your relationship is going.Not got much respect for your feelings has he?
2007-01-20 02:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by dinahmite 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to be really negative but I'd suggest moving on. Clearly the love/affection you're giving him isn't being reciprocated if he doesn't stop smoking the weed, knowing that it's upsetting you.
In which case, you're better off with someone else.
2007-01-20 02:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by pshawfocus 2 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he gets cold after he smokes it, so do something to keep him warm. Either cuddle up against him, or get him a nice, big comfy blanket, and wrap him up in it.
2007-01-20 02:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by Ferris N. Wilcox, Jr 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He may be allergic to it or something else, seek medical advice, try to work him out of his habit, he may not want to but in the end it is for the best.
2007-01-20 02:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋