Do I need to give her some space or is she simply not interested? Should I just wait for her to respond in some way?
2007-01-20 02:33:45 · 19 answers · asked by Ady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm... quite a mixture of responses. I guess the best solution is to just carry on as before and give her time to think about what I have said
2007-01-20 04:13:52 · update #1
give her some space first, then give her another note tell her your feeling after first notes, then if she still not reply you back, then she simply not interest you at all
2007-01-20 02:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, do you have any common friends with the lady? I suggest you could ask a friend to find out how she felt about you, whether you stand a chance or not. Preferbly a female friend of course. I think a friend will be of a great help to you in this case! It sort of helps to end this whole thing... because you'll able to know for sure if you should continue wooing her, or simply just move on. :)
2007-01-20 10:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by nette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did what??? son, why would you such a thing!!!! here's the thing. i'm sure you pour out your heart on the note to her. if the response is not what you expected (in your case, no response) it would just break you. your heart is something that you don't want to be exposed and to be careless about. what if she's the type of person that would have a good laugh @ your note & show it to all her friends? son, the only thing you can do is wait; and hope for the response that you have imagined. or simply move on.
2007-01-20 10:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends how long it has been? if its only been a day or two, leave it a little longer. she might be in the process of writing back to you.
If it has been longer i think you should call her or go and see her face to face. If shes not interested at least you know and can move on. If she is interested - wish you all the best!
2007-01-20 10:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to her dude! If you dont then it will haunt you not for your life but still a long time! She might have some questions she wants to ask you but is just to scared to confront you. She might be affraid of commitment? She could be going through the same that you are going through. Theres only one way to find out!
2007-01-20 10:40:59 · answer #5 · answered by hoser45678 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would not write again. Sounds like she is not interested. If you ever saw her, she might do the , "I have been so busy, I have not got on the computer" or "I am so busy now, I don't have time for nobody." She won't say, get a life and I don't like you, bug off. If she is interested she will get back to you. So for now, you bug off.
2007-01-20 10:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Big C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her person to person, but in as private a setting as you can find. Be respectful when speaking to her and be proffessional. Remember this is your secon opinion, you already blew the first....If she does'nt respond, then make it a clear point to steer clear of her from that point on. She's not interested.
2007-01-20 10:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by diggamann 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either give her space or leave it alone. She's either not interested or she needs time for one reason or another. Don't keep calling her or writing her, either way.
2007-01-20 10:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by manders030405 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, she's either not interested or doesnt know how to read..j/k
give her some space and see what happens. the last thing you wanna do is be pushy. thats a real turn off.
2007-01-20 10:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by pussycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait to see if you get a relpy otherwise bombarding her with letters could class you as a stalker!
2007-01-20 10:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋