I am 28 years old. I will only have sex when I get marry. Will you respect or disrespect me. Some says I am too conservative while others respect me. At the same time I hope my wife is a virgin when I marry her.. What do you think? I am not asking for advice but for opinion on this.
2007-01-20 02:23:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for some people out there who questioned whether I did with other guys, the answer is no. I have not tried anything in my life other than masturbating. That one I admit. Other than that nothing with any living things.
2007-01-20 02:32:46 · update #1
for my sex life, I have watch porned, girl try to hit on me even now. I resisted very hard and succeeded. So if anyone say I pretend to be innocent that is not true. However yes I masturburbated. Other than that I have not try anything. Am I desperate to have sex? You bet? So what I do to resist it? Masturbate. I really try not to have sex. It's not easy and it's true.
2007-01-20 02:36:47 · update #2
Thanks for all your support. From the answers here more than 90% support me. I am a Christian. Thanks for all your motivation. I will never ever have sex until I get married. If I don't get married I will make sure I will die a virgin!! Thanks everyone for your support!!
2007-01-20 03:41:22 · update #3
i think its great that you want to save that special something for your wedding night. wish there were more guys like you!
2007-01-20 02:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Dara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's probably the smartest and most sure way to prevent a surprise pregnancy or STD. I did not want to excerise that kind of self control for that long, so I did not wait until I was married. I was lucky that condoms worked each time I used them. I did get my heart broken, but I learned a whole lot about relationships, emotions, and the actualy physical act by not staying a virgin.
I'm sure there are some older virgins, but I would assume most of them are religious. I'm agnostic, so I ultimately wanted to end up with someone who wasn't very committed to a religion, as it wouldn't lend well to ultimate compatiblity.
Still, I respect what you're doing, and wish you the best. It would be incredible to go through that journey with someone you knew was going to be your life partner.
But a word of advice...sex is awkard at first. Don't expect it to be amazing the first night. If it is great, but especially for women, if may very well not be. And it's not all because of you.
2007-01-20 10:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Blah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We live in a world where the most sacred, most honorable and most valuable things are considered out of fashion, as if it was something to get rid of as soon as possible.
Even women do not want to get married with a man who is a virgin. They prefer experience, not innocence. They reject being honored by a man's "first time".
Innocence keeps and reserves itself only when divided by 1. The more relations we have, the less innocent we are. Goes also for men off course, not only for women.
Being a man does not require great experience in sex. There are many "boys" who have slept with a hundred women.
So, when i say to my friends that i want to marry a virgin man, they are laughing at me like crazy. Someday you will definetely find a woman who thinks the same way i do. Be on the look...
Congratulations for being innocent. There are somethings in this world that can't be substituded when lost. One of them is innocence.
2007-01-20 11:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by belindaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally respect that. chances are you will probably have to find a faithful christian to find a virgin if you want to marry someone close to your age. I believe that sex should only be shared between two people that truly and honestly love each other. Good for you! I am so pleased to know that there are still good people!
2007-01-20 10:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by xstraight_edge_emo_kidx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect.
2007-01-20 10:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have my respect BUT ... i think the later you get married, the slimmer chance you have to your dreams. People are abandoning the old conservative mentality fast and i mean FAST. So... finding a virgin to marry is getting tougher and tougher a "mission" to be. Are you up to it? She may be one...but do you really love her? Life's unpredictable, who knows maybe till the time when you're ready for marriage your mentality might have changed? Or you might be really the lucky few that is fated to enjoy...Let fate do her work.
2007-01-20 10:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by Devoiex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey thats your choice and your beliefs if thats what you want to do then thats great.You will have to look far and wide to find a wife thats a virgin but there are some out there but the longer you wait the less of a chance of that happening.Good Luck
2007-01-20 10:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very great decision,i think its good to wait there are so many diseases out there.lets say you lose you virginity but the month after that the person breaks up with you and you get hiv or sumtin how will u feel,i respect you're waiting a long time and your wife will love you for that!
2007-01-20 10:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by First L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is I would ahve alot of respect for you I already do. But as far as you finding a wife that will be a virgin to good luck.
2007-01-20 10:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a good man and so for that, I respect you! I hope you get a virgin wife too. Good Luck!
2007-01-20 10:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by the DoEr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respect you on this because it's your life and if you chose not to have sex until marriage than that's you. If a girl can't respect you no this than there not worth your time.
2007-01-20 10:28:56 · answer #11 · answered by Big Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋