I am living with my mother and overage. I have a job but its tooo expensive even for me and my boyfriend together. Lately through living with her is totally torture.
She is constantely screaming at me AND I MEAN CONSTANTELY EVERYTIME I TALK TO HER ITS EITHER ABOUT MY BOYFRIEND OR SOME **** THAT SHE MAKES UP!!! She calls me names, I mean everything. She was hospitalized onced and labled manic-depressant aka bipolar.
No medication is taken with her so HOW DO I GO ABOUT GETTING A COURT ORDER FOR A PSYCHIATRIC EVALUATION?
Plzzzzzzz someone help me, I am literaly going crazy and crying everyday because its just too much stress. Mentally I am being tortured. Plzzzzzzzzz.
2007-01-20 01:17:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
This is going to sound like a lecture, but you are driving her crazy! You are overage and living off of her. What do you do to help around the house. What do you do to relieve her stress. If this is her home and you are living with her, it's time for you to get out. Move into a place that is relatively inexpensive with a roommate. Look into the local college area around you. They usually have things inexpensive. Let me tell you why I know this.
I have an overage son who was doing the same thing to me. I do yell at him alot because I feel like I am a slave in my own home. It's always a mess. A mess he makes. He is unbearbable to live with sometimes and probably so am I. The difference is that I pay the bills and he didn't lift a finger to even wipe the countertops after himself. We finally sat down, no yelling, and he is now working a job, getting a car, and working toward getting a place of his own. I know it will take time, but the yelling has subsided substantially!
So, sit down with your mom and ask her if you guys can talk things out without fighting or raising your voices and work out your living arrangement, or flee the nest dear. It's time.
By the way, I was on my own at 18 without my parents help. They were constantly on my @ss, too. I, then, graduated from college at 20. I got loans and studied hard. I had a professional job at 21. You can do it.
We are a family of bipolars! Bipolars are very smart people and stress makes the mind race.
2007-01-20 01:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live with your mother, she rules. It is her house, you are an adult now. Why get a court order when you can move out and support yourself? that will make your relationship with her worse. Life is this real. We always want to blame our parents for everything when we should take over our own lives and leave them alone.
2007-01-20 09:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by Traveler 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there.
Good medication is the answer for her...that should calm her down.
For you - move to a place of your own. You're not responsible for her illness, and you don't have to be her daily victim.
First thing to do : go to a psychiatrist and ask for a professional opinion. He/she will tell you what to do next.
2007-01-20 09:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ioana M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move out of her house. you are an adult in body but not ready to take responsibility for your own life ??? have your own house in order then complain..Who is the real problem here you or your mom ???
2007-01-20 22:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by truthseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry
you sound like a whiner to me
grow up
get out
and maybe mom will be able to regain her SANITY
jeez louise
hope my kids aren't looking for ways to commit me
so they can have the house
wowzers
2007-01-20 09:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by chaz 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋