I´ve been in a relationship for almost 2 years. We´re at that stage when things are a little predictable. It´s not a perfect relationship but we still love each other and it´s not so bad that I would consider break up. I miss feeling the butterflies, going out with the girls, partying, meeting people, you know, being single. Anyone out there is or has been in the same situation? What to do?
2007-01-20 01:17:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do go out with my friends sometimes, but it´s not nearly as much fun as when we´re all single... :)
2007-01-20 01:31:00 · update #1
baby girl, new love is exciting and keep you on edge. your love for him is a little dull now. so, all you have to do is spice it up a little. find new activities to do together. travel: enjoy each other's company. i can't say that it will solve the problem. but a change of routine would definitely helps.
2007-01-20 01:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
missing the feeling butterflies is indeed something that is addictive because it consists of a certain degree of mysteriousness between two person... its normal because people ARE attracted to unpredictable relationships that makes everything so much more fun. But it is time for you to understand that you are going into another stage of your BGR. It is the time to contribute to the BGR as well as relfect upon your every actions. Which is the "boring" stage in relationship. But think back... Every relationship is going to turn out the same way is it is now. There will be a progressive stage that you need to go through. Maybe the starting might be addictive, but are you going to hunt for this feeling your entire life that will refrain you from settling down? Its time to get matured... and i understand that growing up is painful, but thats a part of life that everyone has to go through. We all miss flirting. I believe.
2007-01-20 01:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by Devoiex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation as u at the minute. ive been going out with my boyfriend for 4 years. but this other guy has told me that he loves me. i know what u mean about missing the single feeling.
but is the love that u have for ur boyfriend not enough? is it not better than going out and flirting with strangers? if there is no spark between u and ur boyfriend anymore then maybe its time for a break..
when u think about ur future, is your boyfriend in your thoughts?#
and whats the reason that your not going out with the girls? u need to get out and see your friends. i go out with my friends all the time. u need time apart from your man or u will go insane
2007-01-20 01:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest it sounds like this relationship is to an end as far as your concerned. Why not end it, go out, have lots of fun playing games and when your grown up mentally, mature, and really want a relationship you can try again. Glad I'm not with you.
2007-01-20 01:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of it. I know it's been 2 yrs. but sounds like you're not as happy as you're telling yourself. Do both of you a favor and end it cuz you are just going to end up cheating anyways or being miserable. I'm getting a divorce right now for those exact reasons. I miss being single. Do what 's going to make you happy.
2007-01-20 01:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you stopped going out with your friends.
But at this stage in your relationship, you just have to try harder to do those things.
I'm a huge flirt as well. I love it.
Also, there is nothing wrong with a little flirting with other people as long as it doesn't go any further than that.
2007-01-20 01:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by Marius K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm im in the same situation but it hasnt been for 2 yrs....but we were in different countries and thats what hurts our relationship!.......but he says we should stay together no matter where i am so i kno he does love me!!!
2007-01-20 01:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by [{Soulja Girl}]™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋