what do u think about gettving back with my boyfriend we broke up because he was kissing another girl yet,he says hes changed and that he won't cheat no more yes he did apoligze but it took some one else to tell him to. yes i do LOVE and he says he LOVES me so tell me i do want to get back with him then again i don't .What do u think i should do?
2007-01-20 01:05:28 · 12 answers · asked by BreAnya Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you sure all he did was kiss? I have a feeling he did more than just kiss.
2007-01-20 01:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it is a good idea. He was untrustworthy & selfish when he cheated on you the first time. Those are two bad personality traits right there. Plus, he needed someone to tell him to apologize. His apologize would mean more if he didn't need any coaxing. Also, when you take a person back after they have cheated, sometimes the cheater gets it in his head that what they did obviously wasn't that bad because you took them back. So chances are they will continue to cheat without any real concerns for your feelings. He'll probably tell you you were being a ***** lately, or blame his actions on you instead of taking true responsibility for his bad desicion. Also something in your gut is telling you not to. People hardly ever listen to their instincts but most of the time it turns out they should have. The RIGHT decision isn't always the easiest one.
2007-01-20 09:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kelli McCoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl only u know what u can do. U say u love him right? U love him enough not to cheat on him so why can't he give u the same love and respect? Sometimes u can 4give and 4get but if u 4give him you will be looking over your shoulder every time he does not answer ur phone calls, or when u don't see him for days, or even when u see him with another woman who might just be a distant relative. You are liable to flip on the man! If you are in your teens or 20's, I suggest u leave it alone because something better will definitely come along better than him, plus do you wanna live ur life the way I explained earlier? I say Live life to da fullest and FORGET about that a**hole!
2007-01-20 09:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by nita23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would find another boyfriend because your ex might be lying and before you know that he'll be cheating on you again and act like a ***** by going out with a slut maybe. So go find another boy who would be loyal and take care of you.Also,he'll hold you tenderly and love you no matter what and won't cheat on you in a million years.That's a boy you should go for So dump your ex's *** and think before you find the right guy.alright?good luck though sista!!
2007-01-20 10:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by halima b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had a friend convince him to apologize to you??? If that's true, then he's just going to cheat on you again. He's not sincere. It's obvious that he's just not that in to you and you should get better at reading the signs! He just wants his cake and eat it too! Don't make the mistake and go back with him..he'll just hurt you again!
2007-01-20 09:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to get hurt again? If so, go for it. He hasn't changed. He's telling you what you want to hear because he knows you'll believe it and he'll always have you to fall back on when the other relationships don't work out.
2007-01-20 09:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat always a cheat, if it were love real and true he never would have cheated on you in the first place.
-NmD!
2007-01-20 09:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not get back with him. sorry that i might seem negative but cheaters(and abusers) they are always apologizing but they do again. show him that you arent as vunerable as he thinks you are(p s dont let the word love change your mind)
2007-01-20 09:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by JUDI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will probably do the same thing even if he apologized
so i think you should not go back to him.
2007-01-20 09:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by indie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go slow with him, let it build up once again and see if he can respect that.
2007-01-20 09:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by Another face in the crowd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋