yea. i am only 15 years old. and my boyfriend wants to take everything to the next level. i mean like to the bed. and he looks HOTT naked and everything.but yea.
2007-01-20 01:05:13 · 28 answers · asked by <3 soon to be famous <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
underage...illegal.....dont do it.
2007-01-20 01:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, first all if you are not sure or ready for this do not do this at all , second of all remeber you could end up pregnant if he truly respects you he will wait, if your feelings should be number 1 in his life , he can wait, if not find another boyfriend at your age you are too young in my opinon too be having sex . think about it like this if you end up pregnant will he be their for you or will he say you got yourself pregnant on purpose too trap him boy's & men tend too forget when a woman & girl ends up pregnant that it takes 2 people & if you do in up pregnant are you ready for the midnight & 2:00 A.M. & so on feedings plus your your life is over your going out with your friends & parties everything the first thing you will be having too think about is food , doctor office , a place too live for you & your baby, yes your parents would probably help you, but if your are going too act like an adult then you have too take the responability as an adult would you are not old enough to work in most states so how would you feed your baby when the baby got sick how would you take him or her too the docotors ?? But hun if your not ready just say no it's always your choice not his or anyone esle's. Life is about making the right choices in life for you & not for someone else or being peer pressured into something; stand up for what you want ! I'm assuming he is the same age as you so he not thinking about your feelings at all boys at that age just know what they want .Some are different but not very many .
Please , wait too have sex .
Good Luck & Best Wishes !!
May GOD Bless You & Yours
2007-01-20 01:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by sweettexasangel12001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
(ANS) At just 15years old its very easy to feel pressurized into having full blown sex because "someone else" (your boy friend) wants sex but you must ask yourself what is right for me? what is it that I want, do I want full blown sex? Do I feel ready for having sex?
**Despite what everyone else might say to you, sex with someone you really love alot "is" something "very special" but it requires the right time and place, otherwise that opportunity for something special & wondeful can easily be lost.
**If you are pressured into having sex you might end up having regets and that would be such a shame, only have the sex with your boy friend when you are sure, when you are ready!!
**If you have ANY doubtes about sex then DONT, hold back until the time & place are right for you.
**remember your first real sex is a rite of passage, it marks a person, once done theres no going back. This being the case wait and then make sure its a good experience with lot of privacy & lots of time to be with each other afterwards. DONT rush things, dont have the sex if you dont feel the circumsatnces are right for you, if you dont feel safe & secure about it.
**Think about the contraception aspect too, dont assume your partner will. I know men & boys should be more responsible for this too but we all know the reality isnt like that often. You have to think about that part of the sex, if you have thought about it then you can be more relaxed when it comes to the real situation. Hopefully that will allow for more fun & pleasure too if thats delt with in advance (if you have thought about it).
But either way sex is one of life's great gifts to be enjoyed as much as possible. Hope that helps?
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2007-01-20 01:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I bet he does young lady. Bet he's being really nice to you just now as well isn't he?
oh but maybe I'm too cynical...............
Firstly, you are underage and to engage in sexual activity is illegal. Your boyfriend could face a criminal record if you are found out.
Secondly, what do you want to do? Obviously you two are doing something in the way of naughtys, are you happy with what you are doing now? If that's the case, then tell him you are just happy to leave things how they are for now. If you feel you are ready, adn are doing it becuse you want to, and not to be seen as grown up or cool or to stop him dumping you, then give yourself a week to think about it again, just to be sure, and make sure that you use a condom. The pill takes a month to start working, and won't protect you from std's. Pulling out does not prevent pregnancy, and he coul have something even if he's a virgin, if he's had any sexual contact with anyone else at all, as could you.
JKust go slow, be clever, and be safe. But most of all, protect your body, you only get one!
2007-01-20 01:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel ready for sex, fine, but if you are having doubts, dont do it. Dont let him pressure you into something you arent comfortable with.
You are only 15, its pretty probable that this guy is the first of many boyfriends you are gonna have over the next few yers, so dont rush into anything yet if you arent sure. You are still quite young, even though you probably feel you are older, but 15 is still young to be having sex. Its not just a physical act for women, theres a lot of emotions involvd, and unless you are ready for this, I wouldnt bother. If you have sex with him and you finish, you are gonna feel used and dirty, which at 15 is pretty hard to deal with.
Think long and hard about it. If he is the right guy for you he will wait. If he says he will dump you and find sex elsewhere, this is not the kind of bloke you want to lose your virignity to, believe me.
If you do decide to go ahead, please use protection.
2007-01-20 01:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by lozzielaws 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why so many 12/13 year olds are ending up pregnant. He's a 15 year old HORMONAL teenager. Tthe one thing he wants is sex and if she has such a big 'crush' on him she might end up doing anything to make him happy, to make him stay with her. I'm sorry but i think it's irresponsible of you and your husband to let them date. That age gap in adults is nothing but it's alot at there age. If they are really going to be together what's wrong with making them wait until she's older?
2016-05-24 00:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is illegal for a start dont forget, you sound a little naive, dont do something for all the wrong reasons.
I wonder if your boyfriend wants to go to bed with you because he loves you or to use you,
If I were you I would wait until you your a bit older, a bit wiser & sleep with someone because you love each other & not just for the sake of it.
If your boyfriend starts to put the pressure on then he isnt worth waisting anymore of your time on.
2007-01-20 04:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by chocolatefudgesunday 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would wait. Sounds like his friends are pressuring him. Are you ready for sex. No, because you wouldn't have asked. Wait. One, if you do have sex there is no turning back. He is going to expect sex quite frequently.....because you have unleashed his craving. Self-conscious you will become. Wondering who all knows. Take in consideration has he had sex before.....if so he is well experienced. Meaning if you are not up to par you will know. Secondly, what would your parents say. Condoms don't always work. If they did, young girls and grown woman wouldn't be having babies. There is always a risk. Does he have a sexually transmitted disease? These are questions that eliminate his hot body. You are 15, still in school.......I would wait.......I'm hoping you would wait until marriage. If he is constantly talking about going to the next level he is just in it for the sex....the satisfaction of putting another notch on his belt.
2007-01-20 01:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your young and not ready yet sweety. Once you take it to that level there's no going back.
It opens your life to deeper heartaches, rumors, chances of babies, disease only to mention a few.
There is plenty of time later in life for sex...right now just enjoy being a kid.
my 15 yr old neice just had a baby by a boy who "LOVED" her
he loved her so much he walked away after she got pregnant. now shes a younggggggg mother...goes to school, works & cares for a baby she's old at 15 now. Her childhood is gone!
2007-01-20 01:12:03 · answer #9 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you have to remember is that this is something you can never get back! if you feel like your boyfriend is putting too much pressure on you (like boys often do!) then he isn't worth this precious thing. if he loves you, really loves you he will wait till your ready and legal! if not then he was never worth your love and emotions anyway. speaking from experience i regret handing over my virginity so half heartedly, i always wish i'd kept it for the special one im now married to, however you never know whats round the corner do you? know one can really tell you what to do on this one? follow your true feelings.... i hope you make the right decision xx
2007-01-20 01:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u should i am 15 and my EX gf and i took it to the next cause we had been together for 7 months and we found that we werent ready and it caused many problems if u do tho make sure sex does not become the reason u r togetherstick to ur morals and dont do it because he is hot make it mean something make sex love not just lust or thats wat ur whole relationship will be
2007-01-20 01:19:06 · answer #11 · answered by bigtt2116 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋