i got one proposal but he is marrying me for dowry and my degree.
nor i did like him physically.but my parents and me tensed about age.can i wait.for another 1 yr or am i too old.
2007-01-20 00:52:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are never too old to fall in love or to marry. My own opinion is that you are right now just entering the prime age bracket for real love, marriage, and having babies. At your age, which is still very young, you have developed maturity and wisdom through life experiences and are more likely to make rational healthy decisions for yourself and for the children you may raise.
2007-01-20 03:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are in India the marriageable for a girl is around 26 to 28. I know your parents will be tensed. But the fact remains it is no use marrying a person and then after a few months file for a divorce. One should always wait for the correct person to come whether arranged or in love. You can feel comfortable even if you marry by the age of 32. Getting into deeper details I would like to inform that delay in marriage beyond 35 may in some cases lead to difficulty in pregnancy. But I would request decision in marriage should not be in haste.
All the best.
2007-01-20 09:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!!Firstly chill out.There is nothing as important as marriage in a persons life so you dont want to go wrong and spoil your whole life.It is very important for you to stay calm and keep looking for guys.I would suggest don't marry for Dowry.Things might seem pleasant in the begining but they tend to get bad in dowry marriages.And you are not too old to marry.You can easily wait for about an year at least before getting married.There are a lot of guys out there who are of your age or older and have not yet married.You might consider marrying an armyman coz they have a limit of marrying only after they cross 25 years of age and many of them dont marry till they are 30.So chill you are not in a spoilt soup or big trouble.Your soup is good, start eating it and you'll find the ring.
2007-01-20 09:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kartik A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, if you marry this guy you will be in a divorce court probably before you can blink if you are not in love with this guy do not marry him in my opinion there is no age limit in my opinion but that's my thinking your not too old, wait for MR. Right this doesn't sound like MR. Right too me from the way you put your question.
You deserve too be happy , love & to marry without wondering why the man marrying you about dowry & your degree thats not love if thats why he is marrying you . You want too be treated like a Queen without all of that beeing on his mind I'm talking about the right kind of love & this person doesn't sound like he has it for you at all ! Quit worrying about your age when your are ready & have found the right man it all just falls into place naturally .
Good Luck & Best Wishes May GOD Bless You & Yours
2007-01-20 09:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by sweettexasangel12001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not too old, but your Indian customs have caused you to believe that you are too old to be getting married. I am 36 and not yet married. I would never accept an arranged marriage, and neither should you, but it seems like you have no choice in the matter. Why can't you just choose who you want to marry? Don't Indian people marry for love anymore? why must a dowry be involved? doesn't that make you feel cheap? like an item at the store on a shelf waiting to be purchased? Good luck to you.
2007-01-20 08:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by portjeff143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the Big Fat Greek Wedding today. If he is marrying you for a degree and money then he doesn't love you. Ask him one day why he loves you. If it takes him more than a minute then you know you should wait. He should know what your likes and dislikes are. Your parents are looking at the fact of having grandchildren and getting rid of you. Go with your heart. Do you believe he is not the one? Then wait your prince will come.
2007-01-20 08:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You re not to old, wait as long as you want. I certainly wouldn't marry someone because I think I am getting too old. Find the right person you are happy with and Love. If this man loves you your age wouldn't and shouldn't be important. Gee girl you still have your whole life ahead of you.
2007-01-20 08:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by tassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as "marriage age"...people can get married from 18 to 1111000 years old. If you feel that you have to get/be married by a certain age, that's your twisted thinking. Marriage should be about love and compatibility not age and dowry.
2007-01-20 08:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait until you meet someone that is so special to you that questions like this seem silly. your still young. at least in my culture you are. marriage is serious business. making a wrong choice now can become a nightmare down the road. trust your heart. try not to be pressured by others and the social norm. try not to rush into things. make educated choices. an unhappy life is usually littered with poor choices. good luck and have a great life young one.
2007-01-20 09:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by bizeyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never be too old for marriage. Don't rush, there is someone out there for you. If I would have wanted to rush into marriage I would have ended up with a slimeball instead of meeting my husband who is also my best friend. We have 3 kids and couldnt be happier. Don't marry the first guy who comes along, he can be the wrong guy.
2007-01-20 08:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by dcforensics51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋