How lovey dovey should a guy get? as in what comments are good to say?

Question

I always think of something i want to tell someone, but never do cos im worried its just too over the top

like today, this girl im very interested in wore her hair loose for the first time and it looked fantastic. I wanted to go over and say " you know you should wear you hair down a lot more, looks really great on you"

ALso im not really allowed to talk to her, (she works with me), so i wanted to tell her that "its really getting to me that we cant talk"

I did ask her out before, but she had to say know cos she had just met someone, but she also said that had i asked a few days earlier she would have said yes.

I want to ask her out for coffee again, but also probe her if she is still with him, without being knocked back again. Id feel like a fool

Answer 1

well, get her to chase after you... ;-)

Just tell her that her hair looks good, then walk away.. nothing special, but it'll keep her wondering...

Also, don't get too "lovey dovey" too soon... I did with this one girl I like and it probably ruined part of the relationship... =/

Answer 2

You should talk to her outside of work(while walking out or in try and catch the elevator with her). Try and do this everyday so she won't feel uncomfortable talking to you. One day after you've been talking for a while, ask if she's still dating that guy. If she says yes, forget about it and keep talking to her on the elevator and try again in a little while. If she says no, you can either ask her out for coffee right there or tell her a funny dating story if you're uneasy about asking or your friendly relationship, and keep her in the conversation(no awkward silences). To answer your earlier question, if you want compliment her it's fine to if it's not vulgar(like saying her pants/skirt or blouse make her butt or breasts look good, but I can tell you wouldn't say that). Start out small by saying things like her necklace or earrings are very pretty, then work your way up to saying that she looks beautiful as your relationship grows.I wish you good luck!

Answer 3

um, sorry if id kill your conscience with this statement, but u lost ur chance, man! i say u shouldve took all the chances u could grab before she went out! look at the story of spiderman and mary jane. MJ was waitin for spidey all along and he doesnt know it. looks like u and spidey had the same probs. right?

Answer 4

If the girl is your girlfriend, say whatever you want to say. I would love if my fiance told me to wear my hair down because he loves it that way. (He does.) But for a girl who's not your girlfriend, a good rule of thumb is ask yourself if it's a compliment. If you tell her something you think will make her feel good about herself, say it. If you think it will make her uncomfortable or you're saying it because it makes YOU feel good, save it.

Answer 5

You know it doesn't hurt to complement her, very woman loves complements if there sincere. Find out through her friends if she still dating that guy, if she not then go for it. If she is move on to the next hot chick there's a whole world of them.

Answer 6

I think what you wanted to say about her hair was sweet & not at all out of line..

I suggest that you casually ask how she has been doing, maybe ask if she is still dating anyone....No problem in asking!
Good Luck...hope she is available for ya (wink)

Answer 7

yous should of told her about her hair i would of loved you if you said it to me!!

i know you cant really talk but when you can start talking about going out or what your doing for the weekend then ask her what her plans were then if she said o0o I'm going out with my bf then you know if not go and ask her out!!

Answer 8

just tell her, your hair looks great down, dont go into long definition about it,, dont ramble on, just be to the point,, say Wow, you look great with your hair down,

Answer 9

just not too far when your scarying the girl