Ok, i found out my fella was talking to other girls on Bebo (similar to myspace) I questioned him on it we fell out had a huge argument, made up, sorted everything out and he deleted his bebo page. I have now found out he has set up another page!!! What the hell is he playing at? Do u think i should confront him about it again? Or just leave him? He hasnt posted any comments or received any YET! Im 21 we have been together 1 year.
Any advice? Serious answers please. thanks x
2007-01-20 00:43:12 · 13 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As he has not posted any comments on the page, he could be testing you.
Unless you want another serious argument, just leave it go. At his age especially, the more you try to hold on to or control a guy's behavior, the more he will rebel against you and do the opposite of what you are trying to accomplish...anytime an guy feels they have to "answer" to you, in the back of their minds it is like you are their surrogate mother, which is a total turn-off and they see you more of an authority figure than a partner. The more you snoop, the more he will try to deceive you.
Relationships should be based on trust and once the trust is gone, it is hard to rebuild; however, none of us should trust blindly...I personally would not say anything and continue to monitor the page to see if there is anything outright that makes me think he is hooking up with the girls he meets; otherwise, it could be a way for him to prove to himself that other girls might find him interesting without them expecting any commitment from him as he is already "taken" by you.
2007-01-20 00:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How does he talking to other girls on Bebo affect you?....Sounds to me like he should be paying attention to you 24/7. Do a reverse role and how would he react to you? If you have to go through life being suspicious of him all the time, I don't think this relationship is going to work..all of us are entitled to our own privacy and you are threading on his...is it ok to thread on yours? Alternatively, how about getting on to his Bebo and conversing with him???? Sounds like it would be a good start to a lasting relationship!! Good luck!
2007-01-20 00:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by singirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i used to have the same problem. Since he's tied down, he can't go out and "sharpen his game" with girls on the street, so he turns to the internet. It's probably nothing serious, he just wants girls other than you telling him how great he is without worrying about cheating. If you ask me, you should be happy that he's chatting with girls on the internet where they are miles away instead of at the club, bar, or strip club.
2007-01-20 00:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Déjà Vu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young Guys are not looking for long term relationships with just one girl and will try to talk to as many girls as possible until he gets tired. No matter what you do, this will always be the case. So my suggestion to you is either get use to it or give up on a "relationship" with a guy until you find one who wants EXACTLY what you want.
2007-01-20 00:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you confronted him once and now you've found out he has a new account, I doubt confronting him again is gonna help! Sounds like he will just do it again! He'll just get sneakier! If trust is important to you explain that to him and if he still keeps the account....Move on! You deserve better! Good luck!
2007-01-20 02:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by exhausted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start your own myspace page then get your friends to send pictures of sexy hunks with comments flattering you!
ooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhh, that will smaten him up real quick DO IT it takes like 5 min to start up. email or call your friends.
This sounds evil, but include things he is inadequit in like image and cars and muscles, things guys are sensitive about
Good Luck.
2007-01-20 00:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by takethepain2579 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
especially situations, extraordinarily once you're youthful, and God purely is conscious why, we merely desire to pester! EVEN animals do it! We had a cat that used to freak out whilst yet another cat afflicted her. It grow to be extraordinary, because of the fact till now this, all of them have been given alongside (we had 4). whilst the 1st cat observed her overreact, i assume she have been given a kick out of it and greater effective her efforts! whilst the others observed this, they each and each, one by skill of one, began doing the comparable, virtually utilising the undesirable cat loopy! all of them tormented her to work out her freak! So i assume it extremely is not purely a human element.
2016-11-25 22:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by leng 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he is 21,, nothing wrong with talking to other chicks, you talk to other guys, it is when he goes out with them you should worry,, young people today put too much into their relationship,, go out and have some fun before you are old and grey
2007-01-20 00:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is obviously playing games with you. If you dont trust him then get on with your life. Unless you enjoy wondering what hes up to.
2007-01-20 02:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by clubchaos1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront him, but try to be calm about it.
And I think your right to be angry about that, just incase your doubting your sanity
2007-01-20 00:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋