Has anyone ever met someone and knew they were the love of your life, but something happened and you split up but your heart couldn't move on? If so how did you work through it? Its been awhile but my heart is still very much in her hands, and could use the advice really.
2007-01-20 00:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by NoMaD! 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We never had any bad times, or fights or nothing like that. Her family got really upset when she stayed the night with me and disapproved of me after that. They gave her the choice between me and them.
2007-01-20 00:50:24 · update #1
I know that it's very hard to move on, but you have to if you ever want your heart to mend. What I did was I emerged myself into things that I've always wanted to do(I skydived,scuba dived,started meditation). I found a new person inside myself, and once I looked back on the relationship, I realized that it was his loss to let me go because I am wonderful. I hope your situation gets better!
2007-01-20 00:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lizzard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish you luck, Nomad, because it is very hard to move on. All I can say is that in time, things will become easier. I'm sure you've heard that 1000 times already, but it's true. Go out with your friends and stay active doing other things you like. Remember, every single person on this earth has experienced the demise of a relationship and everyone has come out of it, no matter how bad it was. You will find someone else, even though you may not be looking for that right now, and you will see that a new and healthy relationship will put aside the bad feelings you are experiencing right now over this girl. Trust me, you will get over it in time and find more happiness with another. Good luck to you.
2007-01-20 08:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by portjeff143 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have experienced this before. It was the worse breakup that I have ever experienced because I felt pain in my soul, a feeling I never had before. I don't know how long it has been your you but it does get better with years unfortunately. Its been just about 10 yrs for mine. I don't cry like I use to but there is something in me that will always love him. Not as much as I use to but I still do. Look for the good times that you two share and keep them close. They will never leave. Good luck.
2007-01-20 08:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by blk_sistah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just have to remember sometimes love just isn't enough. It is sad to say, but true. It is really hard to let go of someone you love that much. But you split up for a reason. Just remember the bad times don't dwell on the good ones. You have to put it out of your mind. I know this sounds corny but it is easier to move on when you have someone to move on with. So I would start dating or just hang out with friends. Keep busy.
2007-01-20 08:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I empathise with you for going through a bad patch right now...it is not easy when you love someone and that love is not returned back....but as they say...time will heal all wounds....divert your attention to other matters and concentrate on a hobby or your job or studies etc or what ever it is you are doing. Go out with your friends and make new friends...that's what life is all about ...discovering and more discovering about people till you find the one you are comfortable with and want to share your life with....Healing doesn't happen in a day...take time to smell the flowers and move on....
2007-01-20 08:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by singirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she might be the love of your life, but you are not the love of her life why? What cause the brake-up? You need to know from her what cause the brake-up where you to smothering? To clingy? Too controlling? As far as moving on it's going to be awhile because you need to know from her side what went wrong. They once you know then work on them and then the next girl might the one. Time heals all wounds. Keep yourself busy it will help ease the pain.
2007-01-20 08:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do your best to find good in someone else. That's the only way to get your heart to move on.
2007-01-20 08:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by j b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to move on. ive always adviced that cuz its the hardest yet the best. just live on this stuff that ive adviced 2 some1 whos had the same prob as u: "there are plenty of other fish in the sea. all you have to do is fish."
ps. i like the "nomad" name. =)
2007-01-20 08:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by I'm his Winona 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋