2007-01-20 00:25:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There really is no choice in this question. The 1 may love you but if you don't return that love it isn't fair to either of you & is bound to fail.
If the 1 you do love does not love you, you will only end up alone & hurt when he does find love.
Think about it carefully before you do anything..YOU should BOTH love eachother.
2007-01-20 00:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose the one who love me if it is a real love because it's easier to love people who love you than make people who don't love you have the same feeling as you. Another reason is the people who love you would do everything for you and they can forgive you when you do something wrong.
If I had another choice, I would choose the one who love me and the one I love.
2007-01-20 00:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by RAYs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the love should really be going both ways, otherwise it's not gonna work for you. You can always take the advice of an old song: "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with"
2007-01-20 00:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he doesn't love you -- YOU WILL BE MISERABLE. If he loves you and you don't love him -- YOU WILL BE MISERABLE. Wait until you find someone who has the same love for you that you have for him. But if you wanted a meantime love I would say go with the one who loves you. Even though its not right, you will be on the better end of the stick.
2007-01-20 00:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by blk_sistah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's a hard choice, but over time if you both work on it you will both love each other.
I would choose the one who loves you because over time you will appreciate & gain love towards him from his passion.
If you choose the one you love & he never gains any love for you it will be hurtful.
2007-01-20 00:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by jimineejavaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one you love should be one in the same with the one who loves you otherwise neither. Love cannot work when it is one sided going either way.
-NmD!
2007-01-20 00:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one who loves me.......maybe i could start seeing whats on the inside of people, instead of the outside...
2007-01-20 00:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by Bob the Cat.™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither, they are both one-sided love. And that's the worst love of all...
2007-01-20 00:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one-it has to be a 2 way street. Either of your options sells you short.
2007-01-20 00:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a no brainer question. The one you love.
2007-01-20 00:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by sexyvicky09104 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋