we know each other from a friend and he was always complementing me and being really nice and he asked me out
at first i though he was to young but his just so hot and nice so we ended up together
we have had sex a number of times
do you think the is too much of an age difference, should we stop seeing each other
2007-01-20 00:02:40 · 24 answers · asked by diana_91 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the age difference is no big deal, but he is a minor and you can get in trouble for that, which I'm sure you're aware of. Go for it and have fun, but keep in mind what the consequences are of getting caught.
2007-01-20 00:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, legally your in trouble already! Girls go to jail for statutory rape too you know! Now to answer the question since that part probably will breeze right over your head. Most all grown ups know that men are less mature than women of the same age. This sounds like a stereotype, but unfortunately some stereotypes are true. (like Asian drivers, lol) The way most college girls handle this is to date guys 4-5 years older. What you are doing is looking at only his outward appearance and how good he is in the sack. Time to really evaluate his maturity! This doesn't mean to dump him! Like I said this is a stereotype and doesn't always fit the bill. He may be mature???? I doubt it though.
2007-01-20 08:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one draw back here is legally. He is a minor. You are considered an adult. I personally do not think there is much of an emotional age difference when it is only 3 years, but let's face it, what you go through between 15-17 is considerable. It is not like he is 24 and you are 27. It is the emotional yard markers so to speak that may make the age difference problematic and of course the legal one I mentioned as well.
2007-01-20 08:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is still under age. RAPE. In some states you would be locked up for just having oral with him. Guy in I think, Georgia had oral sex with a girl at a new years party in a hotel, a friend taped the incident and some way it got to the police and he and his friends who participated in sexual acts on the tape were put in jail and have the title child predator for the rest of their lives. So, be careful.
Personally you two should never have had sex. Sex should have waited till you were married. People going around and letting everyone pluck cherries for free. I don't understand also how people....children have sex and they don't even have a GOOD job, a car, and a place of their own. Come on. Be realistic.
2007-01-20 08:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok lets talk about love. In your question u said that u thought he was young at first. You are right on that one. but in the whole thing u did not mention the word love. You said that you had great sex. That is the reason that you are with him right? not love.... At 15 years old he probably dosent know what love is, he thinks that good sex is falling in love. I feel that the both of you need to grow up and mature befor you even start thinkin about love. You guys have so much to learn.
Again this is just my opinion...
2007-01-20 08:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by Dshr D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like they say age ain't nothing but a number am advice for u is that if he acts mature enough and u both love each other u should keep seeing each other but be careful don't get pregnant there are other things you guys can do not sex alone
2007-01-20 08:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by affh1st 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what if his parents cause trouble and have u arrested, he is way too young, u need someone older and more mature. being hot isn't exacly what it takes to have a good relationship, u need alot more, at 15 he is only interested in one thing and won't be able to committ because at 15 he is just way too immature to give u the things u need.
2007-01-20 08:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong wrong wrong.
Legal implications aside, its simply a matter of maturity. Your boyfriend is just a kid, he is still trying to get through high school and is figuring out college, careers, etc....
You are a young adult. Your at a completely different stage in life than he is.
2007-01-20 08:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by Chip 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where i come from that's illegal. If you want to go out with him than wait til hes 18. He is 15, can't take you to the clubs or even go to a restaurant without an adult.
2007-01-20 08:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should stop the sex or you can in get in trouble. Statutory rape is very complicated you can charged with it even if he says it was concentual. I think you should give each other some time apart.
2007-01-20 08:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by andia2amat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋