half of the problem is yours, cuz you let yourself be bullied by someone who doesn't have the authority to bully you. i have a sis too, and she acts more mature than me cuz im so childish. she shouts at me and everything, but the time came when i showed her who's really the boss. so thats what you should do--show her who's boss, who's older, and who should be in charge. then she might never bully you again. but make sure you tell it to her in a gentle way. if you dont, you'll come out the bully too. hope it helps. =)
2007-01-20 00:01:22
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answered by I'm his Winona 5
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Yeah, my little brother used to do that too, so when we got into fights I made sure a couple of times, they got a little "extra" violent. About the time we started thinking about integrating weapons (bats, broomsticks etc) into our regular fights, I realized he could take a beating so I decided to make friends with him, this has more or less worked. However being friendly only went so far, however after I learned karate pretty much the fights stopped.
Of course 10 years later, He's in the Marine Corps so I would say that violence as a method of sibling control has it's downsides.
2007-01-20 10:03:29
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answered by Mark T 7
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Would help to know how old she is - how old you are.
A good general way, is to tell her: I love you. But I do not like the way you are acting. When you can act better, come back.
Then, if you have to, get up and leave her alone.
2007-01-20 07:58:44
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answered by John Hightower 5
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i feel your pain - sisters can be a lot to deal with but dont worry it will get better. When you get older you start to get a long more and believe it or not - may become friends. haha ;)
2007-01-20 08:15:57
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answered by rachie 3
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DO NOT let her think that you are intimidated. She is probably continuing it because it is working in some way for her. Show her you are not affected. (Act like it anyway)
2007-01-20 09:18:03
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answered by Terrie 2
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Invest in a baseball bat.
2007-01-20 07:57:52
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answered by Anonymous
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Get back at her. Pranks. Get even. Let her know who his boss.
2007-01-20 08:03:27
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answered by narcisscus24 5
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take her out ice skating and to eat pizza.she will begin to like you then for sure.try it
2007-01-20 10:09:28
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answered by stefan 3
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first sister are made to be mean...lol... love her al lot for who she is, an hide when you can lol ,,,good luck
2007-01-20 08:01:38
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answered by ghostwalker077 6
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You are not alone girl!!!!! I have one just like that !!!!!!!!
I wanna kill her at her sleep sometimes,but she's your sister so live with it..........
2007-01-20 11:05:14
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answered by Anonymous
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